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The Oprah School on Trial
Anti-violence and women’s groups commend Winfrey for acting with such alacrity as soon as she heard about the allegations, and for publicly commending the girls for their bravery. But among some South Africans, there’s a hope that this case won’t reach a fever pitch. There’s almost a fear that if the trial ends without a conviction, Winfrey will take her millions elsewhere. Outside the court, a uniformed police officer who would not give his name shook his head when I asked him about the case. “It’s not a big case,” he said. “But because it is Oprah, it is bigger.” He opens his hands wide. “Because that’s what happens when people have money.”
Today, the Oprah Winfrey Leadership Academy for Girls remains in session—with nearly all of the same girls and mostly all-new staff. At the press conference last year, Winfrey said the school would “redefine what the [dorm matron] position should mean and what the qualifications will be in the future.” She provided the girls with trauma counseling, and reiterated her commitment to make the school a safe environment. “I am a mama bear when it comes to protecting my children,” she said.
Only Makopo and the young women involved can say exactly what happened at the school. Certainly, if Makopo did do these things, she should be held accountable. But in reviewing Makopo’s case, I am struck by this woman, alone in the courtroom. I find myself asking questions: Is someone who does these things always an insidious child molester? Or could this be the behavior of an extremely poor—and poorly-qualified—child minder who has no sense of boundaries, an immature woman who played childish games to humiliate and overpower others? Is there a difference? Or any difference that matters?
South Africa has made enormous strides as a democratic nation. But for some there remains a brutality here, a roughness born of systematic, racialized oppression and desperate poverty. And it erupts in abuse—physical, verbal, sexual—among women as well as among men. It is everywhere. You are humiliated and you humiliate. In many ways, it is the exact opposite of the self-empowerment that Winfrey promotes in her television program, her magazine, and her school. And that’s what’s so difficult. Winfrey had installed the most advanced security systems at her school to protect the South African children inside. But in the end, she couldn’t keep out this part of South Africa.
During the lunch break, Tiny Makopo again joins her friends. They walk to the fast-food place in the vacant lot next door. The lot is full of tin-sided shacks and camper vans propped up on bricks. There is garbage everywhere: candy wrappers, plastic soda bottles, plastic bags.
Over a plate of fries, I ask Makopo whether she is working while she’s out on bail.
“I wish I were working,” she says. “I have no money. I have nothing. I want a job, desperately. I’m dependent on my friends to help me. Like today, it’s Friday. I want Captain Morgan, but I have no money.”
I asked Makopo what her dreams are for the future.
“I dream about those kids. I do. Every night,” Makopo says.
“You mean nightmares?” her friend asks.
“Yeah, I mean nightmares,” Makopo says. Then: “But I mean, no. No, I don’t have dreams. I don’t dream anymore. My life is fucked.”









This article is very compelling. Until now it had seemed 100% of the coverage of this story had been Winfrey's reaction to the abuse. Great to finally get some an angle from the other side. Well written.
Incredibly insightful writing. I love the personal depth, and the big picture story of this article.
Brings you so close within South Africa...an excellent story. You do wonder if the young woman understands, or if she is merely behaving according to some social schism that parades as normal? I was moved by it. I am still sad for Oprah, I do think her heart and talent are in the right place with this project. Great job! in storytelling.
The core of molestation is humiliation. Compared to the rape of a five year old is the behavior of Makopo shocking? No, it isn't, but the grooming process of child molesters isn't necessarily shocking either. Molesters almost never start with rape because they are creating a situation where they will abuse a child over a period of time. That is a different situation from the rape of a child in an opportunistic crime - which often happens in Africa because it is believed that to rape a child, the younger the better, will provide a cure against HIV/AIDS.
Oprah's response was entirely correct and it is a testament to the safety of the school environment that the girls came forward and spoke about the behavior before it progressed any further. It is what we would want our children to be able to do in any society. The girls have demonstrated that they are leaders -- and that is to be applauded.
We hear the cliche, "We all want the same things in life," when talking about other cultures so often that we have begun to believe it. Fact is, we are different. And different is not necessarily wrong. Different can be wonderful.
This article provides an unflinching view of the differences between the society where Oprah is queen and the one in which she operates a school. The contrast of our appearance obsession and South Africa's cold, hard reality tells as much about us as it does them.
What a wonderful story. Rarely does any media portray a story from the inside out like this and give perspective where most people stay far away. Reporting like this is how we will mend broken bonds in this world; because, after all, we are all an interconnected whole. Thank you for this story and this perspective.
Thank you.
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