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The Best Show Nobody's Watching
HIMYM walks the fine line between comedy and sentimentality flawlessly: a recent episode in which Ted contemplates moving to New Jersey to live with his fiancé deftly tackled the nuances of compromise and suburbia with a steady stream of Jersey jokes. What stretching of reality does occur is offset by the fact that the story is being told in reverse—future Ted embellishes, allowing the writers more outrageous wiggle-room. Ted, Barney, Marshall, Lily, and Robin don’t sit in a coffee shop all day instead of going to work: they drink, in a bar, at night. How I Met Your Mother isn’t just the next Friends; it’s better than Friends. So why is nobody watching?
Obviously, CBS being the old-man/gray-haired-lady network of Two and A Half Men, The New Adventures of Old Christine, and now Gary Unmarried doesn’t help. (Even as CBS network claimed third last week in the 18 to 49 demographic, narrowly beating out NBC, it is still miles behind ABC and FOX.) How I Met Your Mother is a twentysomething show on what hip twentysomethings typically associate as an old man network.
Watch a recent clip from How I Met Your Mother
Lest I continue to bitch about how none of you silly people watch How I Met Your Mother I should note the show has had its successes. Last month, Lifetime snapped up exclusive syndication rights to the show. How I Met Your Mother sold for a reported $750,000 per episode (second-only to Two And A Half Men, which sold for $800,000), after a vigorous bidding war between TBS, FX, ABC Family, and Comedy Central.
Which only makes the fact that CBS has not been overly friendly to How I Met Your Mother that much more insulting. The network did not renew the show for a fourth season in February, as it did with most of its returning shows, but instead waited until May to do so, leaving the cast and crew in a lurch. How I Met Your Mother is co-produced—owned by Twentieth Century Fox but aired on CBS—which means the show’s profits are split between the two companies, further relegating it to unwanted-stepchild territory. This often happens with co-produced shows: NBC happily handed over the eight-year-old cult hit Scrubs to ABC this year.
Besides, CBS has never been able to match NBC’s brilliant promotional campaigns. People just don’t buzz about CBS shows the way they do NBC. Even to this day, people associate “Must See TV” with Thursday nights on NBC, despite the fact that the network hasn’t much used that slogan since the ‘90s. And today, Harris points out, “NBC will just declare The Office a huge hit, and that’s their marketing technique. People who watch those ads go, ‘Oh, The Office! This is a big, giant hit, I better watch it.’” He sighs. “One of the things I’m learning is just to not meddle. If they choose not to do a big promotion to push for our show, there’s nothing I can do about it. I hope that they do, but it’s fine.”
Not least of all because the plethora of choices (there are more than 30 comedies on the air this season) have allowed shows to both become more niche and viewers more selective, making it much harder for comedies to succeed. Friends could pull in 50 million viewers on a good night; now, not so much. “There aren’t monster hits anymore,” co-creator Carter Bays acknowledged to The Daily Beast. “I think there’s less money going into it, just because the money is so spread out and you have so many networks. It’s not like the Fox Corporation [How I Met Your Mother’s home studio] has thirty hours of primetime a week, or however many hours it is. They’re programming for FX, for all their other networks and cable channels.”










HIMYM is my favorite show, hands down, and I feel like I single-handly try to keep their ratings up.
I have watched this show and I have to say, I think the writing has gone down the toliet. Every week I try and give it another try, and it almost always has a negative and almost hostile reference to veg/vegans for no apparent reason, or some kind of animal helplessly involved like the poor monkey a few episides ago. It just comes off as being written by ignorant gradeschool boys.
Insulting people is not a good way to win them to you cause.
-a fortysomething former wisconsinite
I love this show! It makes friends look so generic and unrealistic...the thing I like best about this show are the details that they go through to explain things like Lily's expenisve outfits despite the fact that she's a teacher (she has loads of debt - it's great that the characters face situations like that). Friends would drive me crazy with Rachel (a waitress) and Monica (unemployed?) affording that huge apartment in NYC. I also love the less noticeable things in HIMYM, like when a character makes a joke, the others laugh, instead of eye-rolling or snarky remarks...its all part and parcel of a show that's very realistic in the way us twenty-somethings think, talk and react to the situations people our age are facing.
This piece needs severe copy-editing.
I watched a few early episodes, but I think I'm burnt out on the sitcom with the live (fake) studio audience. Some new and innovative shows are Dexter, True Blood, and if you're looking for amusing cultural commentary - South Park.
hee hee you love a tv show you actually tried to keep your job as a writer by writing about it. How much did CBS pay for this?
As i have learned so often, just becuase you love it doesn't mean it doesnt suck.
My wife and I both love this show. Love, love, love...
- fortysomething red stater
It is definitely one of my favorite shows. Being a 20 Something single guy in a big city, I find myself associating with a lot of the whacky situations the characters get into.
This season has started off weaker than past seasons but every time I write the show off, HIMYM "stops being lame and is awesome instead. True Story"
This show cant compare to Its Always Sunny In Philadelphia
The "new Friends" is a dream that will never die, but anything that's the "new" anything is bound to be the bland sitcom pablum that is this show. Seriously, it's as bad as TAAHM or ATJ.
You're a young "girl in the city" eh? I'm guessing you would have been a big fan of CITC or JSM. But I'm afraid S, the gold standard of 90's sitcoms would have been a little over your head.
Am forty-something, and pleased to know that due to the fact that I watch the show, I am officially not silly. Hooray!
so true. HIMYM is a really good show. i recomend it to anyone. it's a shame that so many other good shows come on at the same time, ie: Chuck, also an really goog show.
LOVE this piece, thanks for writing it -- i'm such a huge HIMYM fan
ONE BONE TO PICK WITCHA though is this: enough with the "HIMYM doesn't get great ratings" stories. It's actually not true. HIMYM beat "Dancing With The Stars" last week in both 18 to 49 and 18 to 34. Plus, HIMYM has had its best-ever start to a season in 18 to 49 this year. Please please PLEASE do your research properly before writing the "HIMYM's rating aren't so good" story -- in context, they're VERY GOOD. HIMYM's the third highest rated comedy on the air now, Behind only 2.5 Men and "The Office" (which it routinely beats in total viewers and sometimes ties or beats in 18 to 49).
Sorry, but i've just read this angle on HIMYM one too many times -- if you look at the facts, HIMYM's a real success story ratings-wise...it's also CBS' youngest skewing show -- why did you include none of these fact?
p.s. - but thanks for writing this piece -- it's certainly underappreciated! but the ratings have been doing better for quite a little bit now
Am sixty-something and never miss this show. Barney is frequently over the top, Marshall a little less, but Lily, Robin, and Ted make me laugh and make me cry on a regular basis
I'm a huge fan of mother and have been since midway through the first season. But I was under the impression that it's ratings while not stellar were certainly dependably solid.
"chomping up the bit."
Chomping AT the bit. As in a horse so agitated/eager that she is chewing at the piece of the bridle that goes through the mouth, know as the bit.
HIMYM is the only network show we Tivo, wouldn't miss it for anything! And we're 50-somethings, so there!
HIMYM is one of my every week shows. I love it - watching it right now!
Oh... really? My roommate watches this show. Right after another knee-slapper: Big Bang Theory. Both have some of the most forced delivery of ho-hum lines I have ever seen. I don't understand why the fans of this show (I have met a few and they're all RABID about it) laugh at any of the jokes. I've only watched it a few times because NPH is dreamy.
im a big fan of HIMYM. and i agree with the past posts that this seasons episodes have been steadily deteriorating. i hope that the story line start to improve.
Silly fortysomething (early) here who has seen all episodes of this often hilarious very much heartfelt and earnest show-- a rarity that has held fast in a sea of cynicism... Maybe now that the times are becoming more optimistic, the audience will come around... But why so upset Miriam Datskovsky? HIMYM is clearly going to be around for at least another 35 or so episodes and the people making it will certainly be rewarded financially, and as far as I can tell it's ratings keep growing. So, though I appreciate your passion, what is the problem? Whattup?
Thank you for writing this. It was but a year ago that I read a similar "HIMYM is Underappreciated" article that compared its lack of acclaim to 30Rock and Arrested Development.
"Arrested Development?" I thought, "I love that show!" And that is the story of how I fell in love with HIMYM and 30Rock. Seeing Neil Patrick Harris lounge in a thumbnail on The Daily Beast made my day.
Man, I wanted to be the person that mentions that HIMYM is the 3rd highest rated comedy on the air in the 18-49 demo. It comes very close to beating the Office some weeks as well. Yes, CBS didn't treat it that great its first two seasons, but they didn't really know what to do with a young skewering show. Luckily, young people caught on, and I hate to say we do owe Brittany Speaks a small thank you.
Also, Arrested Development was not a co-production like you stated. It was produced by 20th Century Fox and aired on Fox. It is not like Scrubs which is produced by ABC Studios and aired on NBC. You should prob do more fact checking.
Thank you.
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