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Remembering William F. Buckley, a Year Later

I concealed my amusement, and handed Pup the clipping and waited for the reaction I knew would come. Sure enough, within seconds, he looked up with what I would describe as only faintly bemused indignation and said, “Ar-guably?”

He was—inarguably—a great man. This is, from a son’s perspective, a mixed blessing, because it means having to share him with the wide world. It was often a very mixed blessing when you were out sailing with him. Great men always have too much canvas up. And great men set out from port in conditions that keep lesser men—such as myself—safe and snug on shore.

One October day in 1997, I arrived from Washington in Stamford for a long-planned overnight sail. As the train pulled into the station, I looked out and saw people hanging onto lampposts at ninety-degree angles, trying not to be blown away by the northeast gale that was raging. Indeed, it resembled a scene from, “The Wizard of Oz.” When the train doors opened, I was blown back into the carriage by the 50 mile-an-hour wind. I managed to crawl out onto the platform, practically on all fours, whereupon my father greeted me with a chipper, “We’ll have a brisk sail.”

I looked up at him incredulously and said, “We’re going out in this?”

Indeed we did go out in it.We always went out in it. Some of my earliest memories are of my mother, shrieking at him as the water broke over the cockpit and the boat pitched furiously in boiling seas, “Bill—Bill! Why are you trying to kill us?”

But the cries of timorous souls never phased him. He had been going out in it for years, ever since he published his first book, God and Man At Yale.Nor did he need a sailboat to roil the waters. His Royal typewriter—and later, Word Star—would suffice.

How many words flowed from those keyboards.I went up to Yale recently to inspect his archive of papers. They total 550 linear feet. To put it in perspective, the spire of St. Patrick’s rises 300 feet above us. By some scholarly estimates, he may have written more letters than any other American in history. Add to that prodigal output: six thousand columns, 1500 Firing Lines, countless articles, over 50 books. He was working on one the day he died.

Jose Martí famously said that a man must do three things in life: write a book, plant a tree, have a son. I don’t know that my father ever planted a tree. Surely whole forests, whole eco-systems were put to the axe on his account. But he did plant a lot of seeds and many of them, grown to fruition, are here today.Quite a harvest, that.

It’s not easy coming up with an epitaph for such a man. I was tempted by something Mark Twain once said, “Homer’s dead, Shakespeare’s dead, and I myself am not feeling at all well.”

Years ago, he gave an interview to Playboy Magazine. Asked why he did this, he couldn’t resist saying, “In order to communicate with my 16—year old son.” At the end of the interview, he was asked what he would like for an epitaph and he replied, “ ‘I know that my Redeemer liveth.’” Only Pup could manage to work the Book of Job into a Hugh Hefner publication.

I finally settled on one, and I’ll say the words over his grave at sunset today in Sharon, as we lay him to rest. They’re from a poem he knew well, each line of which, indeed, seemed to have been written just for him:

Under the wide and starry sky
Dig the grave and let me lie.
Glad did I live, and gladly die.
And I lay me down with a will.

This be the verse you grave for me:
Here he lies where he longed to be.
Home is the sailor, home from sea,
And the hunter home from the hill.

Christopher Buckley’s books include Supreme Courtship, The White House Mess, Thank You for Smoking, Little Green Men, and Florence of Arabia. He was chief speechwriter for Vice President George H.W. Bush, and the founder and editor-in-chief of Forbes FYI.

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February 22, 2009 | 2:55pm
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fred09

I was in awe of your father.
Whenever he wrote or spoke, I had writers envy. Is that a sin?
WFBj. is in a far better place but not forgotten. Christopher, you are a great writer with a wicked wit as well. My sin continues.

May his memory continue to comfort you this coming week. And, I hope you find your misplaced faith again.

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3:33 pm, Feb 22, 2009
njnoecker

Save for the unfortunate but forgivable needling of our Sarah (in no particular order), this column was enjoyable in a weird way--and interesting as well.

Thanks for the memories, Mr. Buckley. Fathers are giants and your father towered over many. R.I.P.

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4:03 pm, Feb 22, 2009
venezia

Heartwarming. Bless you for being a loving son.

What happened to the conservatives of today? Why are they totally unemotional, to the point of being cruelly inhuman?

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4:20 pm, Feb 22, 2009
JohnHedtke

Excellent article, Christopher. You did well.

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4:21 pm, Feb 22, 2009
spinozareader

You seem a thoughtful, principled and caring man. Your father must have been so proud of you. And how you must miss him.

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4:22 pm, Feb 22, 2009
JohnHedtke

Venezia: I don't know, myself. I know someone who used to know Dick Cheney rather well about 15-20 years ago and said that back then, he was a really nice guy, liked by virtually everybody. "What happened to him?" I said. "I have ~no~ idea," my friend said.

The (unsuccessful) attempts to rebrand as "compassionate convervatism" never addressed the implied differentiator of "as opposed to the regular, kick-you-in-the-teeth-when-you're-down conservativism you're used to seeing from us." Conservatives used to be the ones who cared about the environment 100 years ago, for example. That seems to have completely gone by the wayside.

Militant Christianity, maybe? I'm honestly not sure. It's quite upsetting. I cannot imagine Barry Goldwater being as much of a jerk. Even Nixon, for his myriad failings as a human being, actually was in favor of universal health care and a guaranteed basic wage. (Who would have thought we'd come to a day where we'd miss Nixon?)

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4:28 pm, Feb 22, 2009
erin-26miles

Too bad there wasn't a bit more osmosis between you (aka Obama fan) and the old man.


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5:14 pm, Feb 22, 2009
njnoecker

For those wondering "what happened to conservatives?" it's worth noting that no intellectual leaders in the conservative camp, much less the libertarian conservatives like WFB ever considered W. Bush or VP Cheney to be conservative. Likewise Richard Nixon. The extent to which Goldwater was villified and hated by democrats in the 60s was not exceeded until Reagan won the election of 1980. People have forgotten the hateful impugning that was heaped upon Ronald Reagan throughout his Presidency. But, all that pales in comparison to the hatred for the House Republicans for impeaching Clinton, which itself pales in comparison to the hatred by democrats for George W Bush for the 2000 election.

It seems there are two things going on here: 1) people like conservatives who lose elections, and 2) there is nearly a complete ignorance of what it means to be a conservative. We can't help you with No.1, but for No.2, Russell Kirk's Ten Conservative Principles is a very good place to start. And, it's guaranteed to surprise you, as well. Google it.

Enjoy.

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5:46 pm, Feb 22, 2009
BeastofBourbon

Wonderful, warm article, Mr. Buckley. For what it's worth, I also miss your father's wit and wisdom.

Having lost my own father just under 8 years ago, I can certainly attest that, for me, the first year without him was certainly the worst. No, the pain of his loss will never go away, it just becomes a little bit easier to live with over time.

My father was just shy of 81 years of age at the time. With the exception of his emphysema, he was in otherwise good health, both physically and, most certainly, mentally. Still played golf two to three times per week. Well, that emphysema triggered a heart-attack once evening and he died five days later. I got the phone call about the heart attack, and I was present when he died though Dad, himself, was in a coma.

Even adult children have unresolved issues and complicated feelings where their deceased fathers are concerned. While my father wasn't famous, as Mr. William F. Buckley was, I have both the honor and emotional burden of being my father's namesake. Dad wasn't a perfect father (or a perfect man), but he was honorable and beloved, and I try to live up to his fine example.

Like yourself, Mr. Buckley, I, too, want to pick up the phone and call Dad often, and for many of the same reasons that you cited above. Dad was a Republican, so I'm certain that he would have voted for McCain, especially being a fellow Navy veteran, but I think that he would have shaken his head at the Palin selection and prayed for McCain's good health.

I think of all of the things that I've seen since Dad's passing and how I'd love to have discussed these with him, things that some of us never imagined seeing in our entire lifetimes - wonderful things such as a black man elected president, the Red Sox winning not one but two World Series, and the Arizona Cardinals in the Super Bowl, but also the sadness and horror of 9/11. I'm glad that Dad was spared that experience.

Be grateful that you father got to see you married and enjoying a successful career, Mr. Buckley. Also be proud that you gave your father the greatest gift that a son can possibly give to his own dad - grandchildren.

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6:16 pm, Feb 22, 2009
debbieqd

Christopher, this is beautifully written and deeply felt by those who read it. I never agreed with one thing your father said, but I so loved the way he said it. I'd say this: If God has made us in His own image, then He made your dad as His finest match with one exception -- God's a Democrat.

I, too, would love to hear the discussion going on between them on the "other side." Happily, one day we will.

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6:29 pm, Feb 22, 2009
celtoid2

Dear Mr. Buckley,

I too lost my parents in a very short space of time a few years ago. I know the pain and loss you feel missing that unconditional love. Please know that your parents are gone, but I believe they see your loving heart. In any event, whether you believe this or not, love never dies.

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6:45 pm, Feb 22, 2009
Lili50

I had wanted to write when your Dad died so thanks for providing an opportunity to do so now. I am a bleeding heart liberal raised in Texas amidst conservatives and eccentrics. Even though he said some things I didn't like WFB was so utterly cool. So in love with life and so above the fray in such a marvelous way. He had grace in his demeanor that shone out from him and was magnified by his humour. What a great guy just to be delighted by. I wish there were another around as I watched all his appearances just to soak up the whole deal. Thanks again for sharing on this anniversary.

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6:58 pm, Feb 22, 2009
nealjking

I disagreed profoundly with WFB's views, but always enjoyed his presentation of them anyway.

And, by the way, it's "Ave atque vale."

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8:36 pm, Feb 22, 2009
WalterMitty

I sat in St. Patrick's Cathedral that April morning at marveled at your poise and eloquence in a so noble, yet so difficult duty. Amid all the French and Latin, what I thought belonged was a word from Hebrew, for this was a true mitzvah.

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9:19 pm, Feb 22, 2009
magicman

Be well, Christopher. Anniversaries of this kind are difficult, to say the least. I particularly liked the references to family and the cajoling between Father and Son. I remember the same with my own Dad who passed last April; different in detail, but very much the same in both spirit and content. It does beg the question "where have all of the great men gone?" Sadly, there is no evidence of any left in these days, the starkness of this dissimilarity can be seen in the Trillions. "We'll have a brisk sail" might equally apply in other areas of life, as we go tilting at Keynesian Windmills.

Peace, brother. I am quite sure your Dad is safely beside the Almighty, mesmerized at the detail of that man's inventions, having finally met his match...and being rejoined with a lifelong one. Namaste!

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9:54 pm, Feb 22, 2009

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10:12 pm, Feb 22, 2009
setaylor

This, sir, was a work of art...and love. You have always been one of my favorite writers, but this piece...this piece left a tear in my eye, Thank you.

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10:26 pm, Feb 22, 2009
lovelifelightlaugher

Chris,

Your father was indeed ("ar-guably"!) a giant and is sorely missed, by both conservatives (what few are left) and liberals. He may have been a stuck-up hard-headed obnoxious pain in the a$$, but we loved him anyway. As a liberal, I almost never agreed with him on anything having to do with society, economics, or politics, but he brought to the table an enormous capacity to MAKE YOU THINK, even when every fiber of your being was screaming NO!!! You do a marvelous job of keeping the intellectual side of things going, while adding a much-needed jolt of reality and self-deprecating humor into the howling darkness that has overcome modern conservatism. Your father would be immensely proud of you.

Thank you for sharing this with the world. For many of us who only knew of him through his writing and the media, it is a glimpse into a truly vibrant life and (speaking as one who has lost both parents) brought many fond memories and tears as well.

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11:22 pm, Feb 22, 2009
anyletter

Beautifully written.

I grew up reading your father's columns in NR, though admittedly back then I was more interested in the cartoons and Florence Kings back page. As I became more political, your fathers works help shape my opinions. When I read that WFB had died, I knew that my last remaining tie with the republican party had been severed.

He must be so proud to have such an eloquent son with such a well honed wit. I only wish that more people would strive towards his intellectualism.

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2:04 am, Feb 23, 2009
areilza

Thank you for this post. I had the honor of meeting your father in 1990, some months ago I published this tribute in a Spanish newspaper, "Diario ABC":

http://www.abc.es/20080903/opinion-tercera/espiritu-bill-buckley-200809 03.html

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3:17 am, Feb 23, 2009
enthymeme

There is not his equal living or writing today. I think sometimes that when William Buckley died, he took conservatism with him, along with grace, erudition and the art of informed bemusement. Although a life-long liberal, and a democrat from an early age, I never missed Firing Line, and I never once listened to "Mr. Buckley" without taking away something of value. One thing for sure, I learned to be prepared with my dissent -- at least to the extent I was able. It became my ambition to include a pre-Socratic reference (any will do) and quotations from Augustine, St. Anselm and the Rolling Stones, all in one witty sentence deftly destroying an opponent's conservative argument. I did, at some point, but it lacked the authenticity and power of William Buckley because I had to work at it -- he, on the other hand, could toss off declamations such as this with effortless ease.

Mistakes? Yes. Misjudgments? Yes. Logical dead ends? Sometimes. Inauthentic? Never.

He is still missed.

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6:08 am, Feb 23, 2009
nomad1

Yes, the first year is the most difficult. But you'll always miss him and yet he'll always be with you.

What I most remember about your father is his wit. He made me laugh.

You, too, make me laugh. Thanks.

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9:28 am, Feb 23, 2009
jwmcdx

Having recently re-read Airborne, I still believe that no greater tribute to WFB could be written then your letter that closes the book.

It occurred to me that there are probably millions who, reading the headlines, wonder what your dad would make of it all and feel a bit of the emptiness in realizing that we'll have to figure it out ourselves.

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10:45 am, Feb 23, 2009
BEACHREADER

Dear Christopher, Thank you for this; we all miss WFB and are glad to have you to remind us of him. (I am remembering the buried treasure, the silver, on an island off Stamford. Was it ever found?) I have a question: WFB introduced the episodes of Brideshead Revisited when it first aired on TV. Are those clips anywhere to be found?
I have the Charlie Rose interview where your father said he had written all he wanted to write and was ready to go. This thought alone must sustain you, as this state of mind happens to few. I, too, disagreed with much of your father's views, but I, too, loved the way he expressed them. We are glad we have you, a big part of him.

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11:14 am, Feb 23, 2009
milkbone

While I didn't often agree with Mr. Buckley, I respected him. What more could any man want?

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11:42 am, Feb 23, 2009
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Remembering William F. Buckley, a Year Later

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