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On the anniversary of Eliot Spitzer’s exposed liaison with Ashley Dupre, a madam is considering releasing the names in her little black book. What ever happened to discretion?
As public trainwrecks go, Spitzergate was a doozy. This week, we observe the one-year anniversary of the resignation of New York Governor Eliot Spitzer, who, after a successful career busting escort agencies, was himself felled by revelations that he was a high-paying john. Ashley Dupre, one of the escorts he was seeing, feels he’s been “punished enough.”
The real casualties of his downfall, however, are people whose sin was trying to earn a living in one of New York's more durable service industries—among them Kristin Davis, who is reported to have played matchmaker for the governor and spent three months in Rikers Island for operating an escort business. (Until one of her escorts spotted Spitzer in a local newspaper, Davis says she had no idea who she was dealing with.)
“With the service I provide comes the peace-of-mind knowing that I won't wilt when Katie Couric comes knocking for an exclusive interview,” says one escort.
Davis has just released a memoir, The Manhattan Madam, about running America's “most successful” prostitution ring. Never mind if “successful” in her time-honored profession used to mean staying out of jail. Davis, no slave to traditional values, sees herself as a trailblazing madam. And perhaps she is.
On her website, a beguiling pop-up called The Black Book Poll asks what Davis should do with her client list: “Give it to the media,” “Sell it & make my money back,” “Put it online for free,” or “Hide it & forever remain silent.”
Which made me wonder: what ever happened to the sacred cow of customer privacy that has helped define the demimonde of high-class hooking for so long?
Well, it's 2009. It's called “sex work” now. If it's just a job, a transaction like any other, does it still have to be a secret? What kind of discretion, if any, should a client now expect from a modern madam after his payment has been processed and his session has ended?
I put in a call to Natalie McLennan, author of The Price: My Rise and Fall as Natalia, New York’s #1 Escort. Natalie worked in the industry for one fast, crazy year, faced felony charges in 2005, and spent 26 days in jail before returning to Montreal. She’s a 21st-century escort whose brief career was accelerated by the Internet, but her response when asked what Davis should do with her client list is surprisingly old school: a dainty gasp.
“Hide it, of course! Destroy it!” she says. “Why destroy everybody’s life? Does she feel abused? Were they bad to her?” Natalie admits she never got past her “honeymoon” period as an escort. Her year in the life sounds dizzying, but there is nothing dizzy about her vehement refusal to name names. When shopping her memoir to publishers, she says, she was routinely asked if she would name her clients, “but naming names wasn’t even an option.” As a memoirist, she says, “I wanted to be honest with myself, but I kept everybody else’s skeletons in the closet. I was discreet about people’s identities and personal details.”
A generational world away is Janice, a madam in her early seventies who never felt at home on the Internet. I wasn’t surprised by her reaction to the possibility of Davis revealing her list.
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aquamarine
Can it be that someone in sex work does not indiscriminately say who their john was, because that meant they would then be exposed and they would then go to jail? But if they are already in jail, they have nothing to lose?
KemCho
Same people who want truth and honesty from their government want their private life being kept secret? Their is a double standard here.
Issywise
More glorification of professional sex--prostitution. The victims of the Spitzer's fall are prostitutes? Read no further! How did this person get access to this corner of the public marketplace of ideas? Who assigned her the the human interest whore beat?
There is something sick going on here. This is like the mass media representing casual drug use as harmless and acceptable socialization indulged in without consequences by likable characters. The drug and the prostitution industries can't buy better advertising.
The frequent cycling of such feature pieces about prostitution on these web pages can be seen as nothing less than condoning and promoting prostitution. Who do you think your readers are: Bill Clinton wannabes?
Give this talented writer some other beat with possible constructive benefits to society: Why not have her spend a week in the the New York City Library to write a piece on how Gottfried Leibniz's view of time as perceptual differed from Isaac Newton's materialistic view of time and how that might affect the current 30 plus year lack of progress in fundamental physics?
That might be boring--depending on how good a writer she is, but at least she won't be encouraging young women to think there is anything attractive about being a prostitute.
Civic virtue: it is a thing to strive for.
AlexaD
The only time I could see outing clients is if they actively worked to make prostitution illegal or pursued something else that was innately hypocritical. Someone like Spitzer who make life rougher for both escorts and their clients should be out'ed. Someone like Vitter who has been a strong advocate of "family values" (meaning not seeing prostitutes) deserve to be outed because of the total hypocrisy involved.
However, exposing other clients, including other public officials, is just something I couldn't do and live with myself.
druidlaw
Hey, Issywise ( the answer is NO, you're not).....
sex work is not drug addiction. If you want a diatribe on theoretical physics or math, go see Stephen Hawking.
He isn't as good looking as Tracy Quan, but if you are
into guys in wheelchairs..... and he has been married
more times than either Tracy, imho, or me.
lm3333
Clients using "corporate accounts and corporate credit cards", that's another reason to name names, to expose such illegal and irresponsible use of corporate funds.
WorkerBee
She should try to sell it in a book deal. The scumbags that she serviced were mis-using coporate funds. If no one cares to buy it, then put it on the internet for free. Lets face it this kind of work should be legalized anyway. I don't care who engages in these transactions, but I do care when they use funds that are not their own. That's criminal.
mrshaggs
Issywise, why don't you just STOP READING HER BLOG, and you will be a happier person...this is The Daily Beast. Deal with it.
mrshaggs
...and you may wanna read her bio for some background on why she writes about these matters.
Disenchanted
Until the law treats the clients in the same way as the worker, I think its just fine for these women to let the beans out the bag.
If the workers livelihood is to be taken away, then the reputation of the client can go as well, thus their livelihood... especially when these guys are using corporate funds (in many cases) to pay.
mistressmax
to the Questions: "Am I willing to go to jail for 10 years to keep my client list in secrecy?". There has yet to be any evidence that exposing clients has stopped a criminal action against a worker or agency.
We don't go to jail because we refuse to expose our clients. We go to jail because our right to negotiate for our labor and work conditions are criminalize.
New York prostitutes would do well to use the spitzer case as the means to sue the state of NY for un equal enforcement/protection like they did in Rhode Island did back in the 1970's and won decriminalized indoor prostitution.
ChanRobt
We obviously need a law for hookers providing and requiring what lawyers and doctors practice: hooker-client privilege.
vankuyk
Hey wake up everyone, why do you think guys go to hookers?
finderj
Call girls are in the business to make money. While confidentiality is a valuable commodity, so is gossip. You want confidentiality, pay for it. And pay more than the gossip mongers. Or face the consequences. Might be useful for a number of movers-and-shakers-types to keep their pants zipped and their privacy protected.
Just a thought....
bigwurzz
ISSYWISE: There you go again with your constipated view of sexuality. Maybe other people aren't as repressed as you. Maybe they don't have sick perversions secretly hidden in the recesses of their minds that make them so guilty as to feel it necessary to admonish everyone who is at all interested in sex. And, some of us have quite a good time with casual drug use. Some of us see an 8ball shared with two or three of their favorite strippers as a great way to spend a saturday evening. Maybe you have the problem.
That being said. Why do we have to get the hooker chronicles every other week? This chick is a one show pony.
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