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Ruth Madoff's Private World

Ruth Madoff Palm Beach Splash News Lavish Palm Beach shopping sprees, a sister-in-law in poverty, quiet movie nights—Lucinda Franks offers an exclusive look at Ruth's life, then and now.

As Ruth Madoff swept into Palm Beach last month with a quintet of girlfriends, her $7,500 Birkin bag dangling, her husband’s 74-year-old sister, who was ruined by Bernie’s scam, was watering plants and driving people to the airport just to make ends meet.

Sondra Wiener, forced to make pocket money like an out-of-work laborer, endures the pity of her neighbors. After her brother's scheme collapsed, she also put her home in a gated community outside Palm Beach up for sale. Her brother mailed her and other family members Cartier, Tiffany, and other expensive jewelry in December (which violated a court order and were repossessed), but sources say they do not think her sister-in-law Ruth has given her money. And Ruth is believed to have plenty, even now. Although authorities have seized her property and bank accounts—most recently the Palm Beach home and the antique yacht restored by Bernie—investigators describe caches of laundered funds hidden around the world in Ruth’s name.

When Carl Shapiro heard of Bernie’s arrest, friends thought  that the 96-year-old was having a coronary. But this Sunday, he looks surprisingly complacent.

During a recent visit to Palm Beach, I found that the ethos of this balmy, nonchalant Florida retreat for the elite had been disturbed. The palms lining the streets slap menacingly in the wind, luxurious Worth Avenue is eerily empty, abandoned by the economy and the evaporation of capital into Bernie's fantasy bourse. Madoff's victims, in addition to everything else, are spooked. They don’t want their names known because they are afraid of being called before a grand jury or afraid of being called to give back profits even though they sustained losses. Some are even afraid of being called on by the Russian mob, which allegedly was scammed too.

The name Madoff inspires an eerie silence. In particular, the very mention of Ruth seems to arouse fear. Those few who knew her well won't talk about her, those who knew her less well will only talk anonymously.

“Everyone down here thinks she was involved in the Ponzi scheme," said a leading socialite in Palm Beach. "She and Bernie were always collaborators. Look, let me tell you what happened to my friend. Her husband wouldn’t let her invest with the Madoffs. Then after her husband died, Bernie wasn’t taking any new investors. She talked to Ruth who said give Bernie a call and she told him 'Ruth knows what this is all about' and Bernie simply said 'OK, I'll take your investment.' And this woman gave him the store and rued the day she had met Ruth Madoff."

"She came into town briefly, I think it was a couple of weeks before her husband was jailed," said one shopkeeper in Palm Beach's most famous commercial street. "There were five friends with her and they were making their way down Worth Avenue. She had this huge Hermes Birkin bag floating around—you have to get on a two year waiting list for one of those you know."  Another observer added that the group browsed through boutiques like CJ Laing and Angela Moore and had lunch at an Old World Old Money restaurant called Renato's.

"We thought it was odd," the shopkeeper said. "Where did she get these girlfriends? We had never seen her before without Bernie."  She reportedly stayed at the famous Breakers Hotel—where Bernie has in the past rented a cabana—perhaps because she had word that authorities would seize her multimillion dollar waterfront home and did not want to be in it when it happened. The wood shuttered balconied mansion, plus two boats and the yacht, were actually seized several days ago, the locks changed, and Ruth Madoff banned forever.

The Madoffs, for all their extravagant possessions, did not aspire to be part of The Crowd in Palm Beach. They did not go to most charity balls and parties, and simply refused, except on the occasion of Carl Shapiro's birthdays, to go to Colette's, the eating club of the social high-hatters. "I don’t think we even have a picture of them," said a reporter at the Palm Beach Daily News, the society newspaper they call The Shiny Sheet.

Instead, the Madoffs liked to go to movies and attend movie-club discussions. "Ruth is really smart. You don’t get into Queens College and then get a master's if you aren’t," said an acquaintance.

Though they could afford any restaurant in town, the couple favored informal bistros and grills, like Cucina's where they went three or more times a week. There, when owner Nick Coniglio stopped to talk to them, Ruth became "kind of withdrawn. She wasn't pushy, she didn’t wear a lot of ostentatious jewelry, She let Bernie do the talking, you know, the traditional supportive wife." From afar, he noticed how much they talked to each other. "She had this look of authority. She sat there smoking cigarettes, whispering to Bernie."

Added a close friend: “Bernie never drank and Ruth had just a little wine. They were just antisocial."

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April 6, 2009 | 7:01am
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Southpaw

Palm off $200 to the maitre d' for a table at the Palm Beach Grill? Time for the IRS to check out this money grabber's declared income.

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8:06 am, Apr 6, 2009
EENY44

all good except for the bit about The Palm Beach Grill. $200 just to get in. That's a bunch of nonsense. Maybe a rez a week in advance during high season...but that's about it. Makes we wonder how "colored" the rest of the report is. You can't believe any of these people.

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8:09 am, Apr 6, 2009
bindish

Excellent. Ms. Franks recreates the public perceptions of the Madoffs before the collapse. That aloof, superior and isolated
demeanor, which undoubtedly added to their supposed cache,
and which enticed investors to want in. No way that Ruth was
not involved...up to and above her blond bob. As for the PB Grill, one assumes that the $ 200. was a requirement for non-regulars, one-timers, tourists. Again, thank you to The Daily
Beast and Lucinda Franks for enlightening aspects of the
Madoff affair. These are insights not covered elsewhere.

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9:21 am, Apr 6, 2009
ArielAZ

In Ruthie's day, anybody could get into Queens College, if your high school grades were decent enough and you passed your Regents exams. Probably just as easy now.

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9:29 am, Apr 6, 2009
AylinSenturk

Outside of writing some joke of a charity cookbook, Ruth Madoff was but a pampered Upper East Side housewife bleaching her hair and getting facelifts. She's completely complicit in profiting from her husband's ill-gotten gains. http://is.gd/m9nz

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9:30 am, Apr 6, 2009
dulaurence

According to Wikipedia, Philosopher and sociologist Theodor Adorno defined schadenfreude as "largely unanticipated delight in the suffering of another which is cognized as trivial and/or appropriate. If this ain't it, nothing is!

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10:00 am, Apr 6, 2009
VenusMuse

Great article Lucinda! I hope you are offered a deal to write a book about the Madoffs!

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10:09 am, Apr 6, 2009
Martyz42

The whole family needs to be looked at in the same way as the head of the snake is looked at. I refuse to believe that any of them did not know that this whole thing as a scam. It is times like this that I feel sad that the old English "POTTERS PRISONS" are no more.... I can think of no other punishment that would better suit them all then the dungeons of those prisons of the poor. Some might think that as torture, some an eye for an eye, me I think it is deserved by those that hurt so many people without giving it a second thought.

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10:23 am, Apr 6, 2009
NinaMiller

This is the kind of BS none of us need. The kind that puts the focus on the villainess of the moment, defined by her excessive shopping, grooming, greed, selfishness. The new Leona / Imelda / etc. that we can all love to hate.

Keep the focus where it belongs - on the man who created this scam and the thousands, if not hundreds of thousands, of people he hurt. Talk about *his* spending habits, *his* greed. The tired old narrative of the "rich bitch" illuminates nothing, and detracts attention from the systems and institutions that enabled Madoff.

We should be exploring the new narrative of the "masters of the universe" who have done more to weaken this country than any spy or traitor ever could. Benedict Arnold himself couldn't hold a candle to Madoff.

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10:26 am, Apr 6, 2009
Bruceene

I just can not figure out, just who did they think they were?
I think HE THOUGHT that he would get away with it, and just die off.

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10:59 am, Apr 6, 2009
genoftheheart

dulaurence- interesting comment about schadenfreude and Adorno. I pulled up another interesting Adorno observation:

Adorno saw the culture industry as an arena in which critical tendencies or potentialities were eliminated. He argued that the culture industry, which produced and circulated cultural commodities through the mass media, manipulated the population. Popular culture was identified as a reason why people become passive; the easy pleasures available through consumption of popular culture made people docile and content, no matter how terrible their economic circumstances. The differences among cultural goods make them appear different, but they are in fact just variations on the same theme. He wrote that "the same thing is offered to everybody by the standardised production of consumption goods" but this is concealed under "the manipulation of taste and the official culture's pretense of individualism". [10] Adorno conceptualised this phenomenon as pseudo-individualization and the always-the-same. He saw this mass-produced culture as a danger to the more difficult high arts. Culture industries cultivate false needs; that is, needs created and satisfied by capitalism. True needs, in contrast, are freedom, creativity, and genuine happiness. But the subtle dialectician was also able to say that the problem with capitalism was that it blurred the line between false and true needs altogether.

A passing resemblance to the Palm Beach set, wouldn't you say? Incidentally, I'm getting on my soapbox to set the record straight. The term "schadenfroh" (adjective form) was coined by Nietzsche and employed twice in "The Gay Science", published in 1881. None of the dictionary references give proper credit to the origin of the term.

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11:06 am, Apr 6, 2009
amapola101

I dont agree with her lavishes, especially stolen from the back of innocent people. and they all have to pay. But alot of our bankers, ceos, politicians, mega wealthy,mega corporates, wives, mistresses and girlfriends lead the same life. and jet setters and socialites, and they have every right to do it,and enjoy everything and throw it out on toys, and hobbies and parties, and fashions, and luxuries, or legos, dolls, or collecting crystals.It is their earned money, and again no envy to those who have it, and can.But here ahas been obsende amounts of greed and money,tAgain I am talking about those rewarded for companies, and actions that have failed, people who have manipulated ,distorted, and by greedy people, that were allowed to ravage,and hurt innocent hard working people.There are many that belong in the Maddoff club,and we cannot do anything about it.No oversights, protection,help,they all helped each other. and when you ahve been hurt,taken, and used by bankers, iinvestors,politicians,etc who did not help you, warn you, care for you, we are all paying the price and they are a form of Maddofs.

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11:27 am, Apr 6, 2009
amapola101

Nina Miller, I think we are sort of saying the same. thingThere always will be crooks and thieves, of the moment. that doesnt excuse anything. I remember the Imelda Marcus, and I had 2 clients, that had almost the same amount, of shoes,and the husbands were no saints!! .and who am I to start throwing stones just because people are wealIty,that is not what I mean.What a sad world if there was no wealth!!We all enjoy and profit, from each other, interact and we all give each other much more than money,But there are many who are not called crooks like Maddoff that belong in his club, sitting in high positions, and place.There also are millions, of wonderful, helpfull decent, wealthy hard working persons.We have all in every field.,every walkway, and in every class ,of people.

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11:39 am, Apr 6, 2009
lisakschatz

Lucinda
please do some investigating about the SIPC payments...where are they?? Has anyone received their SIPC checks yet???

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12:15 pm, Apr 6, 2009
Annie57

After reading this article, I feel all but certain taht Ruth knew what was going on. I really think that the Madoffs were partners in crime. Is she being investigated?

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12:38 pm, Apr 6, 2009
lachase

I wonder what proportion of families of vast wealth are a result of ill gotten gains? "The love of money is the root of all evil". The Madoffs, like many others are no better than common crooks and need to pay for their ill gotten gains.

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2:16 pm, Apr 6, 2009
jackbutler5555

People don't like what Bernie admits to doing. So they say Ruthie's guilty, too. How do they know? They guess. Maybe it's a good guess -- even though they haven't seen the evidence. The point is, why bother to guess. The feds are working the case. If and when they're ready, they'll move. But they won't move just because they don't like what Bernie admits to doing. In other words, they won't guess. Of course, if they do indict Ruthie, these very same folks will declare her guilty, won't they? I, for one (and maybe only one), will wait for the judgment of the jury.

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2:39 pm, Apr 6, 2009
KarenF444

This is the second time I've read that Bernard Madoff was a man of no personal charm, not a "raconteur" or a "towel snapper" or any of the qualities you associate with con artists or even good salesmen. It worked for him; people thought his lack of charm proved he was a hard worker or a deep thinking, I guess.

Article mentions this fellow who invested $250 million with Madoff and I am wondering if this is the same guy in the ABC report who invested $500 million with Madoff. This is a stumbling block for me in believing the vast Ponzi scheme premise. Harry Markopoulos, the fellow who warned the SEC about Madoff for years, told 60 Minutes that within 5 minutes of examining publicly available info on Madoff, he knew it was a fraud and after 4 hours, he had an idea of what was going on. It is not credible to me that people with hundreds of millions of dollars to invest, people who already employ full time accountants, would just hand over money to Madoff. Unless the investigators look into Mr. Shapiro's finances to see if he really did give Madoff $250 million, I'm going to be skeptical.

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3:57 pm, Apr 6, 2009
scristanti

Lucinda, thank you for this great insight into the world of people like this, I really enjoyed reading what their life is like, and kept saying to myself, how blessed these people are, do they realize what they have, and thought probably not. sure some do but the madoff's and people like jaffe just take things for granted and look what happened to them. Sometimes God has a way of bringing us back down to earth and He just takes it away for reasons we will never know. But I really enjoyed reading this and just imagineing I was in that wonderful world for a moment and not worrying about my next house payment and making sure my daughter pays me back the 100.00 she owes me to make that payment, but I am so blessed in many ways, not much money but have had many miracles in my life, why do these people like Ruth and Bernie just take it all for granted and get so greedy? And now he will be in prison till he dies, it is so sad, you almost feel sorry for them. But I especially pray for the ones that lost all their money, I never had it so I can never feel as bad as they do, GOD BLESS THEM ALL!! AGAIN GOOD STORY!! , sandra, texas

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4:55 pm, Apr 6, 2009
citivas

Another total non-story. There is absolutely nothing in here of substance that has not been reported elsewhere except a couple anonymous quotes that don't say anything surprising. There was the one great interview with a former employee but all the stories before and after are non-events. I would prefer to have less stories but have them all count as true "exclusives." Don't feel you need to have a quota of regular features -- spend your time tracking down more legitimately original news about the case.

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5:10 pm, Apr 6, 2009
Antinous

I want to see Ruthie in an orange jump suit and shackles eating frozen chicken wings and refried beans. . Why is this taking so long!

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5:31 pm, Apr 6, 2009
frankregan

@ninamiller:

This might have been a pertinent comment if this were 20 or so years ago. But now, when women have a grasp of business practices as solid as men; when women start businesses along side their male partners and act as officers of their corporations as Ruth Madoff did, it would be sexist to not ask if she were fully complicit in the fraud. We are not saying she was a bitch, or a dragon lady, or a witch or any of the other anti-feminist slurs used on Martha Stewart or Leona Helmsley. We are saying she might be a criminal who has perpetrated fraud for the purpose of enriching herself. Nothing sexist there. Nothing about her manners or snide allusions to her manicures and face lifts. She seems to have been a proper behaving woman of great ambition and wealth. One who also was in partnership with a criminal.

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6:24 pm, Apr 6, 2009
n2chat

Madoff's wife is certainly guilty too, and how many more family members?

It is refreshing to know that I now live a superior life to that scumbag Madoff, and I would have been considered poor or poverty stricken compared to him.

I think orange jumpsuits, or better yet broad black stripes on white would be appropriate apparel for both Bernie and his wife.

Antinous, I want to see the same menu for Ruthie and Bernie that you do, only maybe you are being too generous.

Should we call this "karma" or "poetic justice?"

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6:47 pm, Apr 6, 2009
GlamGail

After reading the article and the 22 comments already left, I have come to the inescapable conclusion that there is nothing in either the article or the comments to confirm or refute. When all is said and done, the Madoff's lived their own lifestyle, contrary to their rich cronies and there is no meaning in analyzing it. These particular investors just wanted more and are coping with the result of their egg-on-the-face abject greed of trying to get an 11% return on $250 million (or more) dollars. There is no rationale in this, no matter how many facelifts are involved. If the Madoff's quirky behavior didn't raise a flag, neither did the unrealistic promised returns in this world wide down economy. For some, enough never is enough. I don't blame the innocent small investors but where were the CPA's, brokers, lawyers, advisors, money managers who helped amass these outrageous fortunes in the first place? And that leads me to wonder what is worse for these Palm Beach "sophisticates": the loss of their money or that they were greedy-blind to being duped. The oldest con game in the world is to hide in plain sight and that is just what the Madoff's did. And perhaps that is what is torturing these somewhat depleted, highly embarrassed billionaires most of all.

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8:35 pm, Apr 6, 2009
opedanderson

Yet another NON-story about Madoff and his victims.

What is your point? The world you describe seems unreal and pornographic in a financial kind of way, and you are not alone in that regard.

The more I read about this environment that Madoff thrived in the less sympathy I feel for his victims......

When you live in a dream world completely void of reality, why should you expect the rest of us, who live in the REAL world, to have any sympathy for you when it all goes to hell for you?

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8:57 pm, Apr 6, 2009
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Ruth Madoff's Private World

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