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The Making of Kennedy Charisma
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They could make Hollywood stars look small-time the moment they walked through the door. Michael Korda on Jack, Bobby, and Teddy and the magnetism that died with them.
I never met Sen. Edward M. Kennedy—the closest I came to having anything to do with him was publishing Joe McGinniss’ book about him, which, if nothing else, taught both of us just how sharply the Kennedy family and its enablers could react to anything they construed as criticism, which probably ought not to have come as a surprise to either of us.
I never met President Kennedy, either, though I admired him. I did meet Sen. Robert Kennedy, and it taught me something about political charisma. In the 1960s, my then-wife and I used to rent a big house at Dark Harbor, Maine, for the summer, and I used to fly up on weekends from New York City (Northeast Airlines, via Boston, to Camden, Maine, on the “mainland,” as Dark Harbor residents dismissively referred to the rest of the United States and Canada). Houses at Dark Harbor were referred to as “cottages,” however big they were, and most of them were huge and old, with a whole floor upstairs in the attic filled with small rooms for the servants. As for the summer residents, they tended to be elderly, WASP, and rich, and included Douglas Dillon, President Kennedy’s secretary of the Treasury and an ambassador to France, and others similarly well-connected, though for the most part, Republican rather than Democratic in politics.
Sailing was one of the main attractions of Dark Harbor, and almost everybody there joined in the weekly races, including myself (modestly, as a member of Peter Tompkins’ crew, which was like sailing with Captain Bligh). Anyway, at the weekly Saturday evening cocktail/barbecue party at the Dark Harbor Yacht Club that followed the race, there was this large crowd of casually well-dressed people (wearing the kind of clothes Ralph Lauren would later make popular before he himself even existed as a fashion influence) knocking back drinks in noisy camaraderie. There was a broad staircase leading down from the entrance into the big room in which drinks were being served, and all of a sudden there was a collective gasp, an intake of breath, and everybody looked toward the top of the stairs, as of course did I.
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What I saw, standing there, somehow brightly lit, was Robert Kennedy, dressed in a bright Kelly green linen blazer, rumpled white cotton Chinos, well-worn leather Topsiders without socks and a pale blue polo shirt. He had a glowing tan, his mop of hair seemed to be brightly incandescent, his eyes were a startling blue, the whites accentuated by his tan. He was smiling rather shyly, like somebody entering a place full of strangers where he had never been before, and hoping to find a friendly or a familiar face. My wife, not a woman easily impressed, said, “Oh, my God!”
• The Daily Beast's Complete Kennedy Coverage: Tributes, Photos, and Videos So did almost everybody else. These were, for the most part, rich people, indifferent to the Kennedy mystique, instinctively Republican, very snooty about people who were in any way “glamorous” as opposed to solid and substantial, the kind of people who would never be seen dead in the Hamptons, but it didn’t matter a bit. RFK just stood there momentarily, positively radiating a charisma so thick you could cut it with a knife, and so bright that it lit up everybody else for a moment, as if he were lit from within by invisible Klieg lights. Krishna suddenly appearing with his flute to dance in his own aura would not have attracted more attention, or greater idolatry, and this among people most of whom thought “Bobby” Kennedy was a snotty brat with ideas about taxing the rich that had once made FDR “a traitor to his class,” to the parents of this crowd.
It turned out that Bobby had been sailing on the boat of Tom Watson, the then-president and founder of IBM, and they had anchored in Dark Harbor for the night. I only got a chance to talk to him once as he descended into the crowd of people around the bar, carrying his charisma with him like a halo. I told him I liked his blazer. He blushed. “It’s not mine,” he explained with embarrassment. “I borrowed it from somebody, to come here,” and as I looked at him more closely, I realized it was at least two sizes too big, and the sleeves were too long.
Not many politicians have that combination of glamour and charisma—Jack Kennedy had it in spades, as well as a natural laid-back charm, which Bobby could only produce with effort, since he was usually as tightly wound as a spring, and quick to take offense. It would have been interesting to see how he would have fared as president, and whether reaching “the top of the greasy pole,” as Disraeli referred to the prime ministership, might have relaxed him some.








The Kennedys were popular because they had big white teeth. If you count the upper teeth on one side and they add up to six (incisor to 3rd molar) you have a star, a fashion model or a politician.
I met Ted Kennedy and on occasion I was in the same room as him - and I agree and understand your point on the inherent charisma the man radiated
BUT being in the room with Ted Kennedy was also being in the room with all of Camelot - the tingles were not just for the i individual but for the mythical place Jacqueline Kennedy so smartly adopted as a tribute to her husband's legacy
The Kennedy's were to the manor born
To compare them to President Obama, born to mixed race parents, of working class background who was mostly taught and shaped by an intelligent yet unorthodox and somewhat bohemian mother and raced with a black face by his white grandparents; betrays your piece - and suggests to me you were not at many Obama rallies (you want electric? I was at the South Carolina Primary acceptance speak - it was incandescent)
Ethel Kennedy is famously quoted when she met then Sen Obama and said "he feels it like Bobby did". I would think she is a pretty good reference on the topic-
Love him or hate him, Obama can turn on that charisma like no politician today.
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Maybe she can make it the old fashioned way --Maybe she can EARN it.
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Eeww! Eeww!
Yes, Kennedy charisma in that you mean the ability to flawlessly execute extramarital affairs, DUI's, rapes, drug possessions, bootlegging, mob ties and assorted of other sordid activities, I tip my cap. I wonder if Mary Jo's family shares the same sentiments.
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