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Best (and Worst) Cities to Meet Men

Still single, gals? America's most eligible bachelors don't live where you think. The Daily Beast crunched the numbers to pinpoint the 36 cities with the most—and least—dateable guys.

We’ve come a long way from Where The Boys Are, the 1960 flick about four college girls who hit the road in search of eligible men. Today, such crucial relocation choices can’t be left up to chance. So The Daily Beast set out to quantify the best American cities for where to meet a great guy—one who’s smart, fit, fun, and most importantly, single.

Our methodology was straightforward. First, we measured cities with 500,000 or more residents. Suburbs, which have a far higher percentage of married people, weren’t included in the sample.

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Second, we focused primarily on which places had the highest numbers of eligible men, percentage-wise. (In terms of meeting someone in any given place, it’s the ratio that matters.) We initially defined eligible as single (sorry, philanderers) and 18-to-49 years old. Data came from the U.S. Census. That critical number—the biggest pool of youngish, single men—encompassed 60% of the weighting.

Third, to further burnish the idea of “eligible” as a good catch, we gave credit to cities with the highest percentage of single men with four-year college degrees. While individual charm and success vary, as a whole, this rewards men with brains and future earnings power (since a college degree typically adds $1 million to a person’s lifetime salary). We weighted this 20%.

Fourth, it doesn’t do any good to have eligible men around if there’s no way to meet them. So we rewarded cities with the most gyms per capita, which serves as a proxy for recreational opportunities (and also helps on the eligibility front, assuming fitness is a virtue). That’s 10%. And finally, nightlife—specifically, bars, restaurants, clubs, and theaters per capita, as measured by Citysearch—were weighted 10%.

That’s how we’re playing the game. With that, here’s where the boys are: America’s 36 biggest cities, ranked from first to worst.

1. Atlanta
Whether it's the southern hospitality or the sub-tropical breezes, something about Atlanta is attracting all the right men.

2. Boston
With over 50 institutions of higher learning in the Boston area, the city has always been an ideal destination for the young and upwardly mobile.

3. Seattle
Microsoft, Boeing, and other tech companies that have sprung up around Seattle draw thousands of smart, educated guys from all over the world.

4. San Francisco
With those smarty-pants from Google and Facebook buzzing around on their scooters, intelligent guys with great careers are plentiful in San Francisco.

5. Minneapolis-St. Paul
The Land of 10,000 Lakes might safely be renamed the Land of 10,000 Dates.

6. Washington, DC
A city that's all about networking unwinds at some of the best happy hours in the country, and unlike its hipper neighbor New York, people actually have time for a social life.

7. Austin
An exuberant nightlife, year-round festivals, and thousands of U.T. undergrads make the state capital a haven for art and tech lovers alike.

8. Miami
What it lacks in educated men (it ranked 24th in number of bachelors degrees) Miami makes up for in gyms and social life, coming in at #2 and #1, respectively.

9. San Diego
Like Miami's beach bunnies, San Diegans tend to have great tans, great hair, great bodies, and because of the city's high cost of living, lucrative jobs.

10. Denver
A growing arts district, top-notch microbreweries, and the nearby Rocky Mountains make the city scenic, fun, and appealing to outdoorsy singles.

11. Portland, OR
An emphasis on free-thinking makes it a place where even aging hippies can find love.

12. Columbus, OH
The scene is dominated by Ohio State, and available Buckeyes are out every night at the bars on Park Street.

13. Chicago
What pulled the Windy City down to number 13? An apparent dearth of gyms.

14. Los Angeles
It may be the glitz and sunshine, not the higher learning, that's attracting transplants to the city of angels. Intellectual types might fare better heading north or east.

15. Baltimore
At its heart, "Bawlamer" is still a working-class enclave, where hardy men have lingered to work in manufacturing and shipping.

16. Milwaukee
Forbes ranked America's brewery capital among its top cities for singles this year, with high marks in job growth and "coolness."

17. Tucson
Though there are plenty of single men here, this perennially sunny city may not be the hottest spot to find a date.

18. Houston
This city is particularly hurt by a lack of single men compared to its competitors.

19. Nashville
The country music industry attracts songsters to the city's Music Row, and local bars are loaded with crooning cowboys slinging their guitars, hoping to make it big.

20. Tampa-St. Petersburg
The area's proximity to beaches ensures a vital nightlife and men who stay in shape.

21. Dallas-Fort Worth
If you're looking for sophisticated urbanites, head for Dallas. If pickups and Wranglers are more your style, poke around Fort Worth.

22. Detroit
Unemployment doesn't bode well for a city's dating scene, and the U.S. headquarters of the auto industry has had a grim run.

23. New York City
Sex and the City
 tricked a nation of women into believing that New York was the ultimate destination for single women looking for love.

24. Phoenix
This nondescript desert metropolis doesn't offer much in the way of meet and greets; it scored low for social life.

25. Philadelphia
A major-league city, to be sure, but we're sorry to say that Philadelphia resides in the bush leagues when it comes to men.

26. Charlotte
After New York City, Charlotte is the country's banking capital, making it the home to a number of young yuppies in training.

27. San Jose
Compared to its more cosmopolitan sister city to the north, San Francisco, the geekier San Jose has a hard time hosting singles who want to mingle.

28. Indianapolis
The Indianapolis 500 might as well refer to the number of eligible men left in this city.

29. Memphis
You're more likely to find a good BBQ joint here than a guy with washboard abs.

30. Las Vegas
All those wedding chapels must be for out-of-towners -- for singles unfortunate enough to live in Sin City, good luck getting hitched.

31. Albuquerque
This sleepy southwestern town has Native American folklore and petroglyphs, but slim pickings for social life.

32. Oklahoma City
The Oklahoma Christian University lists Krispy Kreme as one of 76 places to take your date in Oklahoma City. Another suggestion: Sam's Club, for the free samples.

33. Louisville
Situated in the heart of the Bible Belt, most of the men here are already taken.

34. San Antonio
So unless there's a convention in town (and there usually is) the options in this city can be few and far between.

35. Jacksonville, FL
This is the city that never seems to end, sprawling for nearly 900 square miles. Despite all that space, Jacksonville has hardly any single guys.

36. El Paso, TX
El Paso came in dead last in three of our four categories (single guys, social life, and gyms) and nearly last in education.

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jafi12

Too funny. For Denver you have a picture of the Flatirons- which are in Boulder - 25 miles up the road.

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9:43 am, Oct 19, 2009

fugitivepoem

hmm. Detroit, Milwaukee and Columbus are better places to meet people than New York? This list should be shot to death before it hurts anyone.

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10:19 am, Oct 19, 2009

emilyj

Yes.

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10:42 am, Oct 19, 2009

whipmawhopma

Milwaukee, wasn't that the best place to meet Jeffrey Dahmer for a while?

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10:03 pm, Oct 19, 2009

SteveStephens

thats because all the good looking guys in New York are Gay.

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11:42 pm, Oct 19, 2009

itsme07

Atlanta at #1. After I saw that I knew this was BS. I live here. The ratio of men to women is about 1/8. Yes for every 1 man there are about 8 women. So once you add that in then the chances go down. Secondly, Atlanta holds one of the largest homosexual populations. Now if you are a male looking for a male, I can tell you where to go, but as for educated women like myself, good luck fighting the other 7 women for that 1 man.

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10:41 am, Oct 19, 2009

emilyj

I'm rather shocked that Columbus OH beat out NYC. I have lived in both places, and let me just say that the majority of men I met in Columbus drank excessively, did drugs, set things on fire, and beat each other up (seriously, the majority). The men who didn't do that were gay. The men I've met in NY have been worldly, smart, clever, and successful... quality over quantity is all I have to say.

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10:42 am, Oct 19, 2009

ThinkAgain

Back in my day, the club scene in NYC was very superficial, people really got caught up in what's in and what's out and it all seemed very forced. 'Smart and clever and successful' was whatever the herd decided it was at the moment. I met my wife there though so it wasn't all bad.

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1:50 pm, Oct 19, 2009

Missikat

To have Minneapolis on this list at all must be a joke. To have it at number six is a farce. Most people in this fair city are married with children. I'm single and if there's 10,000 dates here, please tell me where?! Sheesh!

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10:48 am, Oct 19, 2009

smb279

Agreed. Please tell me where as well!

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7:19 pm, Oct 21, 2009

AWOMANOFVIRTUE

I agree with "itsme07". Its #1 alright, if you are a gay male ! ! !

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3:34 pm, Oct 19, 2009

dailywackos

DB is the new BS. We all know the best place to meet men is Craigslist.

There.

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3:57 pm, Oct 19, 2009

eurydice9276

Boston - depends on the kind of guy you're looking for. If you're looking for the 18-21 crowd, you'll find them in those 50 colleges and universities. If you're gay, you'll find them in the nearly 1/3 of the non-student population of Boston. If you're interested in the young, upwardly mobile guy, there might be one or two who can spare some time from their 80 work week. And if you want to date a married man with children, there are plenty of them around.

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4:29 pm, Oct 19, 2009

numonk

Sorry, but the young "upward mobility guy" is getting ready to fall on his ass.

Why the hell am I here?

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8:57 pm, Oct 19, 2009

boredwell

Does this included gay guys, too?

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5:01 pm, Oct 19, 2009

OOOWWW

If there including Atlanta it would have to include gay guys.

Atlanta is like the black gay capital of the world. For them it's the place to be.

I've been through Atlanta. Easy pickings for those who are straight.

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8:32 pm, Oct 19, 2009

ThinkAgain

Sad how some of you enjoy living on hate so much. You should try to give it up, you'll be amazed how much happier your life will be.

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2:25 pm, Oct 20, 2009

RomeoHotel

Hey ThinkAgain,

Above OOOWWW's comment there were four others COMPLAINING about the proportion of gay men in various cities. OOOWWW didn't complain; in fact, quite the opposite: He seems rather HAPPY about the number of gay men in Atlanta.

So my question is: Why did you ignore all the complainers and attack the contented one as a "hater"? Is it because the complainers had mostly female-indicative nicknames? Is it a socially-induced pressure to seek to attack men as "haters" that overrides even the most clear evidence of happiness? Do you suspect OOOWWW is white? Maybe a ... Republican? Certainly, the Other?

Free your mind. Try to see the world sometimes even as "the Other" sees it.

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7:41 pm, Oct 20, 2009

veronicawrig62

There is nothing in Atlanta, GA for a strait, single, college educated black females except heart ache. There are tons of gay and bi sexual BM in Atlanta, GA.I'm in my 40's and in shape. My gay male friends have no problem here. But, i'm ready to leave. The the gay men and women do well down here. The rest of us are scraping from crumbs!

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9:07 pm, Oct 22, 2009

ColorBox

In other words, any big city in the United States is a good place to meet men. :/
Non-story.

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7:23 pm, Oct 19, 2009

RomeoHotel

Many of the comments above have noted the failure of the survery to exclude gay men from "pool" of eligible bachelors. And this is a good point. I visited San Francisco a few years ago and never in my life saw such desparate-looking straight women. You could see it in their eyes. If you spoke to them they would try to determine if you were gay while their gaze searched out your lefthand ring finger. I am convinced that I might have known several of these women in the Biblical way in the bushes off the street -- some even after they saw my wedding ring, they were that desparate.

I would add one more group that should be disqualified from the pool of eligible bachelors: unwed fathers.

I will tell women where the eligible bachelors are: In smaller cities and towns (under 50,000 population). Of course, the drawback(?) is that there will be fewer highly educated men than in larger cities.

Good luck, ladies, and I think I will let my three daughters (the oldest is 17) read this article and the comments. ... Hmmm, except maybe not this one.

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8:39 pm, Oct 19, 2009

cbeenthere

You have three daughters, poor girls

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9:31 am, Oct 20, 2009

RomeoHotel

Are you capable of anything besides personal attacks? If not, you have no business being a TDB commenter.

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11:56 am, Oct 20, 2009

numonk

This is absolutely ridiculous. Anyone who thinks this sort of thing may be anything other than entertainment probably also likely thinks that their skin color and favorite color are character traits.

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8:55 pm, Oct 19, 2009

whateverwhatever

Ok .. soo.. what about the gay man consideration.. did you filter your results for that?

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5:03 am, Oct 20, 2009

Superfancy

I agree with the other comments: this list is bogus. I lived in Seattle for a decade. It is a great place to meet gay men, but not straight ones. Anyone who has visited the Microsoft campus would laugh at the idea that the men who work there are desirable.

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8:11 am, Oct 20, 2009

RomeoHotel

As a straight, professional man, I'd just like to say "Thank you!" to the feminist movement for producing such a surplus of highly-educated, hard-working, good-income and DESPARATE straight women. Or should I thank feminism for creating the shortage of similarly-situated men? Anyway, it works out the same way! :-D

We men couldn't have done better if we had planned it all ourselves.

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12:06 pm, Oct 20, 2009

enough

If you are going to use CAPS, check your spelling.

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3:45 pm, Oct 20, 2009

RomeoHotel

Well, darn it. Good catch, thanks. I should remember the difference between "despErate" and "sepArate".

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4:37 pm, Oct 20, 2009
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