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Men are abandoning church, and desperate pastors are using Super Bowl parties and pro-athlete preachers to bring them back. But is it still God's house if they worship the quarterback?
The people of New Orleans have a lot to thank God for. After a devastating flood, their city is rising again. Mardi Gras season has begun, with no less than 20 parades this weekend. And the beloved New Orleans Saints have finally, after 40-plus years, made it to the Super Bowl with a chance to hoist the Vince Lombardi Trophy.
Now the question is: Will fans show their gratitude by watching today's game from a pew?
“If you get the young men, you win the war. You get everything. You get the families, the women, the children, the money, the business; you get everything."
It's become an annual tradition—American churches opening their doors on Super Bowl Sunday, not just with a sermon, but with hoagies, chips, and a big-screen TV to broadcast the game. The tradition has gained such steam that two years ago the NFL cracked down on the trend, alleging that the church Super Bowl parties amounted to violations of the league's copyright.
Step foot into one of these parties and you'll soon realize you’re in God’s house, not your own. You won’t find any beer to wash down that plate of nachos, and you might not find any beer commercials either. Most churches are quick with the remote during game breaks to censor the occasionally racy ads companies have paid millions of dollars for. Some will even share a mini-sermon during halftime in lieu of the televised musical performance. Why settle for The Who when you can have “Who are You Living For?”
Because churches don't throw Super Bowl parties out of love for the sport. Many do it with a singular—if unspoken—goal: to bring men back to the flock. Any good sports fan knows that stats don’t lie, and for churches across America, the numbers on male attendance are grim. The average U.S. congregation has been shedding men for years, and now skews 61% female and 39% male. The gap between has become so pronounced that women now outnumber men in every single Christian denomination.
But if a soul is a soul, does it matter whether that soul belongs to a man or a woman? The answer, according to clergy, is a resounding yes. Even in this day and age, many pastors see men as the religious trendsetters for their families, and feel that to get their attention is to get the attention of everyone under their roofs.
“A 1996 Focus on the Family statistic says that when the man comes to Christ, his family follows 93 percent of the time,” Pastor Don Wilson of Christ’s Church of the Valley said in a 2006 interview with the Christian Standard. Pastor Mark Driscoll of Seattle’s highly influential Mars Hill church agrees. “If you get the young men, you win the war. You get everything. You get the families, the women, the children, the money, the business; you get everything. If you don’t get the young men, you get nothing.”
With that mindset it’s no wonder churches are seeking new methods to reach men these days. Instead of appealing to their hearts and minds, many places of worship now target their jerseys, hoping that by mixing enough sports into church, guys will find renewed interest in God.
The Super Bowl viewing parties happening all over the country tonight are great examples of this. Designed to be a non-threatening environment focused on something other than spirituality, the idea is to draw in men who wouldn’t otherwise ever step foot in a church and let them connect with other churchgoing guys. It’s sports as a Trojan horse, only instead of sneaking an army into a city, they’re trying to sneak a Bible into a sports lover’s hands.







whipmawhopma
Most if not all men are natural born pagans. If this is what it takes to win male souls back to God, then it will be done, and generally speaking it makes their womenfolk happy. Or less unhappy.
Let's just be grateful that we live in a country where we are free to watch football on the Sabbath day without having to worry about the religious police showing up to enforce Sabbath observance and deny us beer.
gustav
"If you get the young men, you win the war. You get everything. You get the families, the women, the children, the money, the business; you get everything. If you don't get the young men, you get nothing."
This is also part of the reason behind the push against civil marriage equality for gays and lesbians, and keeping the definition of marriage a religious one. Get the young man into the church and establish a connection, the founding of his adult life (marriage and family) is dependent on the church. Performing a religious marriage ceremony increases the likelihood of a couple returning to a church when they start to have children. If civil marriage ceremonies of any kind continue to be celebrated and elevated by society at large, they lose more of the heterosexual market.
Jaygim
You're overreaching on your theory, there. Correlation doesn't equal causation. Now, back to the Doritos munchies on the morning after.
timeflies
Short answer: Beta men are infinitely gullible when stroked by any alpha male.
It defines the, um, vertical hierarchy.
In case others missed this:
http://www.alternet.org/media/145495/battle_over_super_bowl_abortion_ad_ rages_on%3A_is_tim_tebow%27s_birth_story_even_true/
Jaygim
The tebow ad made cretins out of those who dispensed pre-game "outrage;" I was a tad offended in that the green screening could've been done better on Apple Motion, but that's it.
Brendino
There is a big push for relevance in today's church, and sports seem to be an okay ground to make a push because sports in and of themselves are largely amoral. They're also a great way to bring people together! When the Penguins were winning the Stanley Cup, my fiancee's house would land anywhere between 5 and 16 people in her basement, because hockey was a great common ground for my friends. When I was in college, our campus ministry would put on Super Bowl parties. We never proselytized much more than saying who we were and when we met, but we got to meet and hang out with people who wouldn't ordinarily meet or hang out with us.
Why wouldn't the church want to capitalize on this? There are certainly better ways to spend time together, but there are plenty of places in America where watching football on Sunday is part of the culture, so why not do it with Christian friends?
refiguy
Hey ,,,Jefferson was right "Churches are a waste of space"....why try and trick guys into church. Yes, the one poster was right ..thank goodness that we live in a county that has free choice..so let's forget about the tricks and let religion stand on it's own ..
carry41
So then I wonder why, the second narrative in the movie Hook is about what happens when young men, untried, lead? Then again look at Lord of the Fly's... another hair raising tail of young men untested and untried in leadership roles.
In Haiti, they have created compounds where they feed the women and children first, because when the food is left to the young men, they act brutally, hitting and starving the women and children.
I attend a VERY large multi site church where young untried untested leadership is doing the same thing... its a mostly male leadership, where women who are trying to serve, hear things like... " wow your the only girl here, hmmm I don't know where to have you help... after handing out all the choice jobs to men."
I notice even God, tried to whap guys upside the head when he left the single most important fact of the bible- Jesus' resurrection- in the hands of a woman, and then again... Jesus' birth... not given to a man....
Such statement about God being more interested in men only fuel a fire of division... instead I wonder if asking how each person, man woman or child hearing God asking them to contribute would be more helpful.
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sonofloud
So that's what happened to the promise keepers?
jedsdead
Many churches canceled services in New Orleans yesterday because they knew no one would show up, not the men or the women. The church can't compete with the Saints here!
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