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07.20.13

Not Feeling It

You text. He or she replies—or doesn’t. What does it all mean?

Have your communiqués with that special someone left you confused? Time for a “he’s/she’s just not that into you” booster shot, courtesy of Her Campus. The long and short of it: if he or she is chronically late to reply, only booty-calls you, or never commits to plans, don’t try to rationalize the behavior. If someone wants to actually factually date you, you’ll get a text more along the lines of “Hey (name), are you free this weekend? I’ve got passes to ...” Otherwise, you’ve got some reassessing to do.