Ryan Selzer is an associate producer on Showtime’s The Affair as well as a licensed therapist specializing in family and couples training. She currently trains at The Ackerman Institute for The Family in Manhattan.

Infidelity

For me, that’s the burning brightness of The Affair. This show triggers. It wants us to question, it wants us to not know, and it asks us to tolerate ambiguity, which of course isn’t a comfortable feeling.