Tootsie Haine

Tootsie Haine is the writer behind The Looker's sex and dating column.

Dating column

FRIENDS & BENEFITS

I Accepted a Dinner Invite and Ended Up in a Threesome

A strange predicament.

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Fireman holding woman

FRIENDS & BENEFITS

My First Date on a $119 Celebrity Dating App Was a Letdown

I waited a year to join. My first match was disappointing.

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retro woman

FRIENDS & BENEFITS

I Fell for a Hot Guy Until I Dug Through His Social Media

The revelation evaporated any interest.

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Office romance crush

FRIENDS & BENEFITS

I Lost My Office Crush to the Hot New Girl

At first, I envied her, even judged her. But in the end, she provided me with an invaluable lesson.

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High school notebook with doodles and Don Draper of Mad Men

FRIENDS & BENEFITS

I Matched With Hollywood Men to Boost My Career

The strategy did not work out as planned.

Tootsie Haine