Bill McKinley (he, him) is first and foremost a student of love. He is also an actor, singer, dancer, choreographer, songwriter, recording artist, studio singer, Gestalt practitioner, massage therapist, and pleasure activist. As an intimacy coach, for twenty years he has taught lessons in giving great head to women and gay men whose boyfriends have thanked him ( He performs as bear dance music artist DaddyB, is a storyteller with LA’s Strong Words, and has recently begun writing professionally, first for HuffPost, and now, The Daily Beast. Originally from Indiana but a New Yorker at heart, he resides in Madrid, Spain with his husband Ricardo, a national cultural treasure of Spain in flamenco and acclaimed photographer.