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Why I Posed Against Prop 8
The Daily Beast's Meghan McCain on being the newest poster girl for a celebrity photo campaign to overturn California's ban on gay marriage—and why more Republicans should follow her lead.
I was so honored to be asked to pose for the NOH8 campaign. I am a proud member of the Republican Party and a proud supporter of marriage equality. I especially love the incorporation of the little elephant with his tusks duct-taped in the photograph. Marriage equality is not just a Democrat or Republican issue, it is a human one.
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oldpunk
Look forward to seeing you on Bill Maher tonight.
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FoolsLogos
It's California. What do you expect?
bobvious
"FoolsLogos:
'It's California. What do you expect?'"
FoolsLoogie, that sort of blanket generalization is an insult to everyone in California, including those who might agree with you in every way (except that one, perhaps). Unless, of course, you really believe that everyone in California is alike. In which case it may be time to a) create your own country or 2) check yourself into the mental ward.
jenni0278
Meghan,
I think you did great on Bill Maher tonight....You looked like a lamb going into a lions den (which in fact, you were). I voted for your father in the last election and still stand by my vote, but what I want to know is, why does each political party have to alienate people of different beliefs? I have voted mainly Republican since I turned 18, but I don't agree with ANY parties beliefs completely. I believe that if someone wants to marry someone of the same sex, let them...It is not affecting our lives at all. Also, I am Pro-Choice to a point...I don't believe it should be used as birth control, but I also believe it is a womans right to choose. Politics are getting really screwed up with religious beliefs and things that aren't really important in our country. What about helping those that have paid into Social Security all their lives and now cannot afford to even pay for their prescriptions, let alone food(but we'll let illegal immigrants collect). Also, why is it so hard for a single, caucasion, childless woman, who makes under 30,000 a year as an LPN, to get any sort of educational help besides loans? I think both parties need to start working together on the things that actually matter in the US and quit complaining about things that don't matter in the long run. Will it really affect your life if someone marries someone of the same sex, or even a tree? No, So let's focus and bring attention to positive things that we can make work for everyone! Again, I support your father and believe he was the best candidate for the job, and hopefully we'll only have Obama for one term!
anvil42
Going into the lions den? What, are you retarded? While I agree with you on many social issues I must say-she did POORLY on Real Time. She got slammed for her condescending attitude, "I wasn't born then", statement and rightfully so! She should have just came out and told Paul he was "old" and a "square". Give me a break! If you go onto a T.V. show you'd better be prepared! She was petulant and showed her background by being whiny as well! She's a child and should stay off t.v. except, perhaps, the occasional reality show. I'm not impressed with her writing nor her on camera persona. She only gets this gig because of her last name-if she were your or my daughter would we be having this discussion? Not hardly! Let her defend the GOP! It's an indefensible position! And I'm an independent voter!
And Jenni0278 keep wishing for Palin to become president! Obama will do great things! You probably supported Bush both terms, didn't you?
jenni0278
anvil42,
I was trying to be nice in regards to her appearance on Bill Maher. I don't think it does anyone any good to criticize others when she was clearly out of her element on his show. And no, I am not "retarded", as you so eloquently asked...I did support Bush BOTH terms, but I am not rooting for Palin to be our next president. I choose the candidate that best fits my beliefs at the time of the elections. I actually liked John Edwards, but he wasn't a choice in the end. I don't think Obama has the experience or the courage it takes to fix our nation after a DEMOCRATIC congress, not Bush, screwed it up. We'll have to wait and see what he does for the 4 years we have him, and hope for the best. He gives great speeches, but so did Hitler...
jlaxmn00
With all the right and far left I've been seeing lately, I find this refreshing and if the GOP is to truly evolve they must have people willing to follow their own beliefs not just tow the party line blindly. It makes me hopeful. Thank you.
LondonHayley
I love this comment, I agree with everything you said, except I am totally against abortion.
stevejonesinla
I think it's fantastic that McCain is attempting to advance the outdated tenor of most public republicans. However, what an embarrassingly dismal showing she had on Bill Maher.
My daughter and I counted McCain's use of the word "like," and we would like to suggest she look over the tape and do so as well. There's no way to get good at something -- like speaking in whole and grammatically cohesive sentences -- without practice, nor without taking a good, hard look at past performances. If she does want to learn and take stock of herself I think she will come to see that last night was a particularly insecure, defensive showing that made her look, simply, stupid. Which I'm sure she is not. She is just waaaay out of her league. The truth is, on a bad day, my 12-year-old daughter speaks with more poise, comfort and mastery of the English language (and she was, personally, I think, embarrassed by McCain's clear, fumbling insecurity).
When one is on national television, speaking in the style of an insulated, self centered, under-educated 14-year-old does not help get one's message across; in fact it hurts it. This kind of inane and seemingly ignorant blathering from a woman in the spotlight hurts women in our society, because it gives fodder to the patriarchal, misogynistic elements in our society. Much like Sarah Palin's backwardness, immaturity, and, what I believe to be genuine, stupidity has done. There really are smart, accomplished women in politics! You wouldn't know it but... really! They exist! And, yes, even in the Republican party. But with the McCains and the Palins of the world tittering, winking and behaving like high school sophomores on the airwaves, it would not seem so.
McCain's comment intimating that the Regan era was irrelevant to her because she "wasn't born yet," bore out her immaturity and unreadiness for public discourse. It sounded like the lame, defensive retort of a cornered and intellectually outmatched adolescent (who says "like" every fifth word), and I think that's exactly what it was.
"If you don't know your history, you are doomed to repeat it," is an important and prescient thought that is just as important at this moment as it was when it was first uttered, which was also before McCain or most of us were born -- a fact that makes it no less relevant today.
Why doesn't this seemingly likable and caring young woman, I don't know, educate herself? Maybe look some things up; study some history?
It has been said that "history doesn't lie" (she could look that up too, might be interesting for her). That could be really good for her and her poor speaking skills (note to McCain: Dont try to ad lib! You're dead in the water if you try to extemporize).
Paul Begala rightfully flattened her on her pivotal screwup, with the French Revolution punch line, and it is a really good and fair point. The American Revolution, Civil War, Slavery, World Wars I and II, Korea, the Vietnam era (she could maybe ask her dad how important that was, and is), the civil rights, women's and gay rights movements all began before McCain was born. Please tell me she doesn't think that fact, in and of itself, makes those world-shaking events, that have indeed shaped the very fabric of our history, irrelevant. Or does she not only sound, and comport herself, like a valley girl... but actually think like one too?
Finally, it is this sort of ignorant and substandard display of intellect, from a woman in the public sphere, that makes me afraid for women's rights and for my daughter's uphill fight in gaining respect as she moves into womanhood, the workplace, and public debate. Women have come a long way (baby), but they are far from out of the woods when it comes to equal treatment with me. McCain's lack of talent, professionalism, decorum, poise and speaking powers does not advance women.Just the opposite.
Go to school! Woodshed. Get your act together McCain before you set yourself and others back. You are not ready for prime time. What a shame.
Cleanerman
I think you are way too hard on Meghan. I am a Democrat, but I felt for her. She is just not in her element yet. And she may not make it in the public arena. I am an "old timer" and I would be tongue-tied on a TV show. She does appear immature and she is young. She admitted she was very nervous. But, in spite of all that, she means well and, in her fashion, is trying to loosen up the tired old GOP. I say "go girl". I am a hard core Democrat, but if there were more "minds of Mehgan", what a better country we would have. The tired old GOP needs to disappear.
alexkajusa
I am not even sure why she was there and for what purpose. She did humiliate herself pretty bad. Whatever she was nervous or ignorant, she does remind me of many others at her age in this country. She did talk as she was texting on her phone while listening to music and later bragging about multitasking.
Am-I-Dreaming
SteveJones, you are SO right on every point. She's a journalism major--she should know how to use the language. Granted her age is probably a hindrance, but if she is going to put herself out there, she should get some presence. Certainly she can afford some decent media training. To see her up there opposite Katty Kay (sp?) was such a point/counterpoint moment. And all of those other commentators, including Paul Begala, were treating her with kid gloves no doubt because of her youth and ignorance. She needs to either grow up, if she intends to remain in the spotlight, or shut up and get some real world experience (as in a job, perhaps) and some savvy. She did indeed come across like a petulant adolescent. I think it may be because she is usually on shows as the only guest, not as one of a panel, who is meant to debate or at least discuss things in an educated and literate manner. If this is how she presents herself in such situations, she'd better stick to being the lone "liberal" on Fox shows.
HappyLib
Well said! Her problem on the show last night is she tried to spew talking points and could not defend them. When you belong to a party that blames Clinton for EVERYTHING that was wrong in the first 8 years of the Bush admin. you look a bit silly when you want Obama to accept blame for all Bushs failures. They want to have it both ways and Begala was just pointing out the obvious which she apparently could not react to in any manner befitting a mouthpiece. I have come to like this young woman but she is still drinking a bit of the kool-aid and trying to defend the indefensible. She is loyal to a party she disagrees with fundamentally so therefore she will never be good at defending it. She is good at defending moderation but not republicanism.
wilder
Hey, that's not fair. If she educated herself, learned about history, and learned about the real world and real people...she'd become a Democrat, and where would that leave her new career? As it is, she's doing quite well at playing the bizarre oddity of a Republican that's capable of an occasional - though extremely rare - independent thought.
innovations
Oh you have got to be kidding. She was just fine. She was so relaxed. She was being herself. Only snobs like you would be focussing on her grammer and speech punctuality. Would you have felt better if threw in a few "YOU BETCHA's" and "MAVERICK"?
GET A LIFE!! LIGHTEN UP!
Maezeppa
Oh, please. Couldn't you have just suggested she slow it down a little and try to get over the use of "like" and left it at that? It doesn't deserve a thesis.
clking
I was also disappointed with Meghan's showing with Bill Maher. I will say, however, that Maher was in rare form during his discussion with her. He is well informed and his panel members and guests are usually able to meet him toe-to-toe or even give him a run for his money. In this case, Maher realized up front that treating McCain as any usual guest would only be a hollow attempt and instead place him in a very juvenile position. My suggestion is that McCain review the way he worked with her during the discussion and especially the way Katty Kay demonstrates her knowledge and diplomacy when faced with ideological inquiries.
Most importantly, McCain's appearance demonstrates the critical importance of understanding the nature of discourse. Ideological inquiries are just that, not necessarily fighting words. Approaching discourse from a defensive position removes any opportunity to practice discourse and, even more, removes any opportunity to build bridges (something McCain suggested as her reason for speaking out).
I admire McCain's motives and look forward to seeing her progress. I am a progressive and tend to vote primarily democrat. With that said, I think McCain is getting her feet wet and I hope she will look for more opportunities for discourse and leave defense for more appropriate venues.
ryokisan
I totally agree.
CartoonCoyote
@innovations:
It's "grammar"; and WTF is "speech punctuality"?
Zugzwang
Totally support her intentions as well, but she *bombed* on Maher. That was awful. She looked totally out of her depth.
jlaxmn00
Yes she did seem out of hear depth. Although I give her credit for going on there and her willingness to appear on MNBC. To actually go into these Lion's Dens and state her case. sometimes she doesn't come off so well as with Maher. Sometimes she passes with flying colors as with Maddow or the View.
Spasticula
Meghan looked really dumb on Realtime, because she was exposed for what she is; a brat with access... and an empty head.
Zugzwang
Based on her columns that have been posted on this site, I know she doesn't have an empty head. She's not an intellectual giant, and I don't really expect her to be. But her youthful perspective is something I exhilarating, and makes some of the tenets of conservatism much more appealing to me, a fairly liberal person.
But she just cannot be on TV. At the very least, not yet. She can't go toe-to-toe with the chattering class, and she was clearly out of her depth on Mahr. I felt like he held her to the same standards as he would anyone else on the show. It has nothing to do with being in the "lion's den." She just isn't a very good voice for conservatism.
Again, at least not now, and at least not on television.
DonDraper1
She was clearly very nervous all those types of shows are about the host and how he can pick on people for their views especially if they do not agree with the host.
goddessb12
I thank you for supporting young speaking out about the treatment of sex, the passing of judgment on others by not-so-moral politicians and for trying to bridge the divide of our partisan politics.
Sadgirl
Megan, saw you on Bill Maher and wanted to make one comment. You need to clean your own house first before you start to rag on a professional entertainer (who was CLEARLY talking @ Bristol) . Miss Alaska dragged her kids @ like trick ponies, using them shamelessly and placing them in the public eye. Bristol chose to put herself out there even more, making her fair game for the funny people. In SHARP contrast, the Clintons NEVER dragged Chelsea into the public eye when they were in the White House. But that didn't stop YOUR FATHER from making a disgusting joke @ her when she was THIRTEEN! His (non) joke was that the reason Chelsea was SO UGLY was that her father was Janet Reno. What a riot! And you can tell your friend, Miss Alaska, that this is the kind of cruel and heartless comment that truly damages the self-esteem of young women. Not to mention ragging on a grown woman who has devoted her entire working life to public service just b/c she isn't beauty pageant material.
nickatdabeach
Ms. McLame adds fuel to the fire of why Simcox will be the next U.S. Senator from Arizona. I wonder: can't you find a more thuggish cap to wear in your DB profile pic? John McLame is yesterday's news, and a RINO. I can't wait til the 2010 elections. Why doesn't the obese Ms. McLame just come out of the closet?
imac1025
none of what you said makes a remote amount of sense
skorpeo
thank you, meghan, for crossing ideological lines and standing up for what you believe in. you give me hope for the future of two viable parties in this country.
masanf
Crossing ideological lines? I hate to break this to you, but California is not a Republican state. Just as many Democrats oppose gay marriage as Republicans. I seem to remember the Defense of Marriage Act being signed by a Democrat. And I seem to remember the Democrat in office now defending that same bill; in fact, in his defense, he compared homosexuals to pedophiles. Democrats are no more supportive of gay marriage than Republicans.
pooba007
"Just as many Democrats oppose gay marriage as Republicans."
Your statement is absolutely not true. Here are the Proposition 8 votes:
Republican: 82% YES, 18% NO
Democratic: 36% YES, 64% NO
That's a huge difference!
GM2009
Go away already.
Another blowhard McCain, born with a silver spoon up her/his butt with an imagined sense of self-importance and entitlement.
maspring
Dude, this is about the best that the Republican party has going for it.
The day the McCains go away (and those like them) is the day that you bury the party for good and all.
imac1025
Why is it that because her father is a senator she has a "silver spoon" up her butt. You obviously have no idea what political families are like
mh1982
Thank you for your common sense :)
CiaoBellaMia
thank you for being a breath of fresh air to the republican party. as a young republican living in CA, your insight on social issues gives me hope for the future of our party. keep it up!
WorkerBee
photo looks airbrushed. Did she lose weight?
possumdearie
Dunno, but the duct tape is a nice touch.
gopinnova
You are right, she must have lost a ton of weight.
pooba007
No, Adam Bouska (photographer) is just THAT GOOD.
DonDraper1
She is freakin hot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
whipmawhopma
I liked the picture. If only we can get similar ones of Rush, Newt, Sarah, Dick, Barbara, and what the heck, Nancy and Keith as well.
Not that I am implying that Meghan isn't a sweetie by lumping her in with that crowd. I enjoy listening to her talk. Mostly.
hockeydog
whipma, you are right in not wanting to taint this pretty young lady, and her open mind with the cretins in the Grand Old Party. Like skorpeo stated in the post above, young McCain may succeed in eventually giving us two viable, closer-to-the-middle political parties.
And, who really cares if she has a few awkward moments while learning the ropes of the Public pillory? Gotta start somewhere!
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Ritarita
Don't make me
Stop this car.
NDSquid25
Ah, maybe because neither a horse nor a minor cannot consent to marriage. Just a thought.
possumdearie
Keep driving off that cliff.
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pricklypear
Turn off your turn signal, ahready!
Latino
You can be an adult still consent to homosexually marry you father or brother without consequences. Not the same for an heterosexual marriage due to consanguinity issues.
Biology is biology and I am not sure the gay lobby can change it.
Ottoheinz
You anti-gay-marriagers might have a stronger argument if you didn't tie it to your belief that gays are abominations. You are using the gay marriage issue to push gays further to the fringe instead of accepting them into society. Thus the fight is really about that rather than about the logic of marriage itself...and stop comparing it to bestiality, that's just too stupid to even consider. Almost as dumb as comparing it to pedophilia.
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Veronicaxy
lol! Oh Rita I hope you're on the DB payroll. If not you should be.
pricklypear
Turn off your turn signal, ahready!
GM2009
Tiresome talking point. Only wingnuts buy into that idiotic meme. You lose
Redana
Seriously? They don't even equate! You're comparing homosexuals (in other words regular people) with animals, criminals and religious extremists. We're talking about a contract between 2 people of sound mind and body, how do animals et al even enter into the picture?
JLF1200
Argumentative logic FAIL
jglass54
Hmmm......let's see: man and daughter could produce genetically damaged offspring, so that's not ok; an animal cannot consent to marriage, so that doesn't work; as for multiple wives, frankly, if the wives consent to it and are above 18, perhaps we should allow multiple-wife marriages. Does that answer your question, flaunt?
JadeNYU
What if a mother and daughter want to get married? There is no chance of a genetically damaged offspring then? Is that alright?
I have a friend who has cystic fibrosis - if her husband had been a CF carrier, there would have been a 25% chance that they could produce a 'genetically damaged' child with CF. That's a much higher chance of genetic issues than you'd find in the offspring of an incestuous relationship. Should she have been restricted from marrying anyone that was a CF carrier?
estcruzer
and multiple husband marriages
lilmama51
Which reminds me: If you are going for bestiality, choose a horse. That way if it doesn't work out, you have a way home. --Willie Nelson
BERLINNL
IF YOU HAVE NOTHING INTELLIGENT TO SAY DON'T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL TO COMPARE A GAY PERSON NOTICE I SAID PERSON THEY ARE NOT ANIMALS TO BESTIALITY JUST SHOWS YOU LEVEL OF INTELLIGENCE.
SFGiants
Hey, flaunt, you're really Banjo1, ain't you? Welcome back, buddy!
hockeydog
That's right Giants fan, our boy Banjo appears to be back! But he has disguised himself with his new "liberal" position on gay marraige. Notice he also did not mention his deepest closeted desire this time.
Spasticula
Flaunt can't even be bothered to fight mormon polygamy. They're just not scape-goaty enough.
ryokisan
EXACLTY NDSquid25. I don't understand how people who continue to make this argument about kids and animals and crap doesn't get that! Giving two (or possibly more...) ADULTS who can consent (are in a clear state of mind) is completely different. It's so sad to hear someone spew idiodic crap like that.
sauce21
i have no qualms with meghan mccain the person, but why is this such a big deal again? simply because she knows her ass from her elbow, and also happens to be a republican, this is supposed to be big news? give me a break. looking over her entries to TDB, she has 2 pieces that actually address something legitimate: gay rights and sex ed. meanwhile, these two 'breakthroughs' are taken for granted among democrats. this is not newsworthy in the least, and its frankly patronizing to be lectured on this by some woman who frankly brings nothing to the table with her greatest achievement being john mccain's daughter and graduating from columbia. thats it. why she deserves this media outlet is beyond me.
sagaderisa
Great job Megan - that's a fantastic photo of you, and I think the photographer (Adam Bouska, it looks like?) expressed your struggle to convince the GOP to support marriage equality very effectively.
bryanlevi
The photo is excellent & I applaud her in standing up for the cause.
GM2009
WorkerBee
'photo looks airbrushed.'
Yes
'Did she lose weight?'
Digitally
robstockbr
I love you (oki, an over statement. But I really love your view point. I am a gay male who use to be Republican. You express the ideals of why I was Republican. The two are not antithetical. You are the future of the party not the cross burning Sarah Palin.
Reason
Meghan,
You are beautiful. If the issue doesn't get the attention of conservatives, the photo sure will.
Oh, and lest I forget... when are you going to switch parties?
JadeNYU
She already did. She switched to the Republican party on Father's Day of 2008. Somehow though, a party affiliation given as a gift instead of reached through convictions and considerations is enough to qualify her as the new voice of the Republican party.
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n--Y--Liberal09WorkerBee
Megan is only a republican, because her daddy got her into the party.
Otherwise she would not be a republican. She would just be another liberal. All she ever does is complain about her party. If she was a democrat, then she would probably do the same.
She just wants the spotlight. Another talking head, attention hound, causing controversy for money.
daniel66
What?? She is the face of where the Republican Party will be going. The old guard has done enough damage focusing on ramming social values down our throat.
PS - the Republican Party isn't exclusive...you don't need to be let in. I'm a center mind Republican and believe in gay marriage, freedom for a woman to choose, fiscal responsibility and changing our party from the inside (just like Ms. McCain)
AlanD2
"Another talking head, attention hound, causing controversy for money."
And how does this make her any different from Glenn Beck, Sean Hannity, Bill O'Reilly, etc.? Except that she is not an extremist, of course.
JJtothethird
"And how does this make her any different from Glenn Beck, Sean Hannity, Bill O'Reilly, etc.? Except that she is not an extremist, of course."
Or if she were still democrat, how would it make her different from Maher, Franken,....etc.
WorkerBee
Aland2 and Jjtothethird, the point is it doesnt' make her any different. Birds of a feather.
Lamontyoubigdummy
"Ah, maybe because neither a horse nor a minor cannot consent to marriage. Just a thought."
How about a man and 8 wives? Woman and 8 Husbands? A man and 8 husbands? Hell, man and daughter stands up to scrutiny if she's 18.
Once princess here has been out of college for more than 15 minutes and skips a DC cocktail party long enough to work up a coherent thought she just might get it. Two or more consenting adults want to enter a contract? Fine. It's America. Land of the free. Go nuts! But that contract has to be adjudicated in a CIVIL court. "Marriage" puts it in family court genius. Family courts across the US are completely and totally backed up just trying to deal with traditional marriage, custody, child support, etc. Good grief. Most of us aren't mouth breathers who oppose two dudes tying the knot. Go on. Have great big weddings. Knock yourselves out! You'll have the same rights as the breeders. Just keep it...civil.
BCLance
Legally, your argument is even less sound than a straight up "no marriage" argument. Why wouldn't it be in a family court if the contract delimits the same kind of relationship responsibilities and legal compromises that a heterosexual marriage does?
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