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A Democratic Speechwriter Backing McCain Responds to Attacks
The former Democratic speechwriter, who came out for McCain on The Daily Beast this week, responds to the death threats and hostile comments that ensued with a plea for civility.
When former Democratic speechwriter Wendy Button wrote on The Daily Beast this week that she had decided to vote for John McCain, she did not imagine the tsunami of hostile reaction she would unleash, from death threats to the more than 900 comments on this site (and hundreds more on others that linked to it) calling her everything from “deranged” to “loser” to in need of medication.
Below, an update from Button on the response to her piece:
It has been a long few days since I posted my piece, “So Long, Democrats.” But thanks to modern technology, I have not been alone.
One of the early comments reads, “The dogs are about to be unleashed on this message board. Make no mistake about it.” This person was correct, and those dogs were more like pit bulls without the lipstick. However, some have wandered out of the message-board-yard to make threats and even a few creepy phone calls suggesting that they might poison my own dog. I expected anger from the far-left, but the extreme caught me off-guard.
I thought that was what the other side did when there was dissent. Remember what they did to Natalie Maines and the Dixie Chicks for speaking out against the war? Remember the cover of the National Review calling George Clooney a traitor? Remember how upset Democrats were when they smeared former Senator Max Cleland and called him unpatriotic and morphed pictures of Osama bin Laden and Saddam Hussein over his?
The pendulum is always swinging. Guess this experience proves that. These extreme opinions are in no way reflective of most Democrats—most people—but the fringe element is with us now. And I am a nobody who spoke out. I pity the first big leader or press person who does and hope that the next time a lesson is learned and the pendulum doesn’t swing so far. These dogs are fierce and don’t seem to hear the call of “We can disagree without being disagreeable.”
Now, when this went up I knew.
I knew that the people I loved would be angry, betrayed, and many will never speak to me again. That is a consequence I accept, every angry phone call I take and email I read. I have to take it and that’s my responsibility, especially since the piece went up so quickly and I didn't have enough time to give everyone a heads-up.






GaiaTerra7
Wow, amazing. People give an opinion about you giving an opinion and suddenly we are all monsters? If you don't like someone, fine. If you want to tell everyone else about it, then you should not be shocked when people respond. It is called conversation. Why write another piece? Do you think everyone will go all fuzzy on you now. Peace to you and congratulations and good luck in your new home.
ngrant
I agree with GaiaTerra7. I'd also like to point out that most of the negative comments I read (and which I agree with) concerned how poorly written the article was. It simply wasn't a good read, regardless of its opinion and many commenters made the point that they expect a higher quality of writing on The Daily Beast.
sjnrrslt
Good job, Wendy. I commented in support of your first article. At the end, I too observed that your comments would unleash a string of animosity. I am a middle of the road kind of guy. I love to read differing opinions on a myriad of topics. I find myself generally more conservative on financial issues and more liberal on humanitarian issues. I sincerely enjoy hearing someone express their reasons for holding to their opinions - even if they differ subatantially from my own. To that end, I enjoyed your article, your rationale, and the expression of your feelings.
The comments I read in response to your prior article simply reinforced my prior observations over the years regarding those who hold extreme views. Whether to the right or to the left, they become inflexible, dogmatic, and highly reactionary toward anyone who dares to differ. This election has tended to polarize people away from the middle, which means it has created more fanatics than we normally have in society. I see that Obama's side is just as guilty as McCain's. There will be no winner this election, just a surviving loser and for that, I am sincerely sad.
Johnnorth
Bravo Wendy! The fringe fanatics should read Voltaire - who would disagree but defend to the death your right to speak freedy/ But he's French and since there;
's no tolerance for the French (remember the screams on the right?), so Madison or Lincoln would do.
rjcrawford33
Wendy is correct that we should respect her opinion.
I sincerely do.
However, she errs in thinking that hers is as significant as the space she takes to give it.
slaneyblack
Ohmigod there is so much drama in Wendy Button's life! For NO REASON!!! Shame on you all and Barack Obama and also Sexism because you got her fired and made her vote for John McCain.
thedudeokc
While I felt that Ms. Button's open letter seemed disingenuous at best, I can't understand why anyone would lash out the way many apparently have. Criticize her points or motivations, but why would anyone feel the need to threaten her physically.
I agree with you on at least one point Wendy, I also feel that the left is supposed to be the side of understanding. Just because the other team fights with hate and ugliness gives us no excuse to adopt those same tactics.
While I still question your motivation for the original piece, I offer you my apology for the unnecessary pitchforks and lit torches that have been swung at you.
Kuzball
We should all abhor those that threaten violence in response to an individual's political beliefs in any situation, from any point on the ideological spectrum.
That said, most of the criticisms made of the original article seemed to have less to do with "stepping out of party line" or "betrayal" as they were serious reflections on the logic behind Ms. Button's decision to vote for McCain/Palin rather than the Democratic ticket. I believe that had she declared herself uncomfortable with the Obama/Biden platform and decided to abstain from voting all together, it would have been easier to swallow for most of this site's readers.
Instead, Ms. Button decided to support the ticket of the party that has routinely dismissed the rights and the respect worthy of the middle and lower class; the party that has, as one of its core tenets, a penchant for tailoring policies to cater to the wishes of the extremely wealthy, ignoring everyone else in the process. Ms. Button charges the Democratic Party with sexism, but finds it very easy to support a ticket that picked a vice presidential candidate out of blatantly sexist motivations. She disagrees with the Democratic position on the Iraq war, but will vote for an openly war-hungry hawk that would leave troops there indefinitely and likely start another confrontation with Iran.
Ms. Button, the indignation expressed here and elsewhere is not the result of hurt feelings and abandonment. It is a commentary on the wildly hypocritical stance you have chosen to take, on your decision to throw away all of your principles and support a candidate that cares nothing about the values you claim to hold dear. You may be uncomfortable with Barack Obama and Joe Biden, but to take that discomfort and turn it into support for a ticket that deviates even more drastically from what you purport to believe is confusing and appalling.
JGBylok
Isn't the Democratic Party supposed to be one of tolerance - of embracing those who are not the same as us? I am utterly disgusted and ashamed that these hypocritical party supporters who are are in fact just as closed-minded, bigoted, and cruel as our Conservative counterparts. Having the freedom to choose who we vote for and support is part of what makes this country great. Having freedom of the press and freedom of speech should never be contingent on the message. And if you support those freedoms, you should never be threatening one who is exercising those freedoms, even if you disagree with them. And for those people who are refusing to ever speak to her again - good riddance to such close-minded "friends".
lefthem
GaiaTerra7: the issue is not that people responded, it's the tone of the responses. To be clear, I though Button's original post was logically weak. But responses should contribute to the dialogue; death threats or name-calling are not only lame in general, they're especially hypocritical when they come from Obama's supporters. Obama, you may recall, insists that "we can disagree without being disagreeable".
monkeywrench528
Ms. Button is shocked.......Schlocked is more like it. When you throw out red meat the wolves don't differentiate according to party.
RinRea
I registered in order to leave a comment. Wendy, though I too have been registered as an independent since the start, I feel a bit of an obligation to apologize on the behalf of all of those who have threatened you.
I do this not out of a feeling of guilt, more so the knowledge that those who have threatened you have stolen some of the dignity that comes with being a human being and interacting in a civil society.
So, I'm sorry there are people who don't know how to disagree. Their parents probably never taught them to share, or to disagree with dignity. It is ironic that (honest or not) Senator Obama tells those at his rally who boo Senator McCain to just go out and vote as opposed to booing and then we find this kind of disgusting hate following your rather personal article.
I don't agree with everything you said, but I support your right to say it without reserve.
tzeigler
Well, Ms. Button, it is too bad that people have been levying death threats and the like against you. Unfortunately, there are crazies on both sides. All that said, I still take issue with your original essay. All those words and precious few good reasons for supporting John McCain. All I can take from today's post is that you think the Democrats are sexist and unfair to working people, while the Republicans are more supportive. Really? Somehow amongst all the billions in tax breaks for millionaires and beat-downs on workplace unionization, I missed that. Well, good luck.. methinks you'll need it.
bowseat93
Geez. Here we go again. Please just go away.
ImTheMan
GaiaTerra7,
I'm not sure you read the entire piece, but I could have swore it started off with her receiving threats and the like. Not sure that would qualify as "conversation" in most people's eyes.
Thank you.
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