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Memories of Diana Are a Tragic Battleground for the Sons She Left Behind

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William and Harry are adopting different tactics as the 30th anniversary of their mother’s death approaches.

Princess Diana, 1985
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As regular readers of The Royalist will know, I have been reporting since last year that Prince Harry is planning a Netflix film about his mother, Diana, to mark the 30th anniversary of her death next year. This week, my stories were confirmed when sources in Harry’s camp told The Telegraph that he and Meghan were indeed planning such a film.

This could explain why they have come back to a country that hates them.

I had also been hearing that William was being approached to make a film of his own, and that he was considering it. The London Sunday Times reports that he has in fact “declined several offers to make or appear in a documentary tribute to his late mother as the date approaches.”

Catherine, Princess of Wales, and William, Prince of Wales, attend the launch of a Suicide Prevention Toolkit on World Suicide Prevention Day at Hill Dickinson Stadium in Liverpool, Britain, on September 10, 2026.
Since Catherine’s illness, she and William have decided to keep the people they find hard to deal with at arm’s length, focusing instead on public-facing work, like this Liverpool launch of a Suicide Prevention Toolkit on Sept. 10, 2026. Shirlaine Forrest/via REUTERS

I was intrigued to read that William had a meeting on Thursday with Matt Brittin, the BBC’s director general. It was literally a one-line mention, and no detail of what was discussed has emerged. This should really be a huge story.

The BBC is one of several organizations that want to make a Diana film with William for next year. I can’t help thinking that the meeting may have been William telling them, definitively, where to go, after his uncle Charles Spencer’s interview with the BBC’s Laura Kuenssberg. This gave Spencer a prime platform to air his accusations against the king, especially the disgusting allegation that Charles sounded “giddily elated, like a lottery winner” when the two men first spoke after Diana’s death.

Kuenssberg did challenge him on that, sort of. But not really. Asked whether he could actually be sure that was what Charles was thinking, Spencer replied, “I cannot be sure,” adding that he was assuming from the tone that it was a possibility. That was it.

Britain's Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex, talks with his uncle Charles Spencer, 9th Earl Spencer, during the unveiling of a statue commissioned of his mother Diana, Princess of Wales, in the Sunken Garden at Kensington Palace, London, Britain July 1, 2021.
Harry talks with his uncle Charles Spencer at the unveiling of a statue commissioned of his mother Diana in the Sunken Garden at Kensington Palace, London, Britain July 1, 2021. Spencer’s memories of events surrounding his sister’s death have been back in the news this week. Dominic Lipinski/Pool via Reuters

The description of Charles as elated is in marked contrast to Harry’s own account, in Spare, of his father coming to sit on his bed at Balmoral and struggling to get the words out. It is in marked contrast to the fact that Charles wept when he had to travel to Paris and view her body. And it is in marked contrast to what has been widely reported about his first reaction to the news, as recorded by that author Penny Junor: “They’re all going to blame me, aren’t they? The world’s going to go completely mad.”

That is not a lottery winner. That is a man who understood instantly that his ex-wife’s death would be laid at his door and that it had derailed the plan for Camilla to be Queen by at least a decade.

Diana, the Princess of Wales, stands next to her husband, Charles, the Prince of Wales, during a function held in their honor on February 11, 1987, in Bonn, Germany.
Diana, the Princess of Wales, stands next to her husband, Charles, the Prince of Wales, during a function held in their honor on Feb. 11, 1987, in Bonn, Germany. Georges De Keerle/Getty Images

It is true that after Diana’s death, Charles did launch a campaign to blacken her name, as we discussed with journalist Phil Craig on The Royalist podcast last week. That is documented. But it is a different charge from the one Spencer is making, and I’m sure William, who has had his difficulties with his father over the years but still respects him, was aggrieved that the BBC handed Spencer the platform to air his unproven allegations.

Mind you, William fell out with the BBC long ago. In November 2021, the Cambridges aired Catherine’s Christmas carol concert on Britain’s commercial ITV network, after the BBC screened The Princes and the Press, a documentary the royal households criticized for giving credibility to “overblown and unfounded claims.” The carol concert has been an ITV exclusive every year since.

There are a lot of high-stress words being flung around at the moment about William’s state of mind. William is “furious,” William is “spitting blood” about Spencer’s memoir. That is not what I’m hearing. The word I am hearing, over and over again, is “dismay,” and beyond that, very, very little. This has been the policy of William’s side ever since Catherine’s cancer diagnosis: complete disengagement from what they see as damaged, dangerous, toxic individuals.

Tom Cruise, Catherine, Princess of Wales, William, Prince of Wales, and David Beckham attend the "Digger" premiere on September 22, 2026, in London, England.
Tom Cruise, Catherine, Princess of Wales, William, Prince of Wales, and David Beckham attend the “Digger” premiere on Sept. 22, 2026, in London. Chris Jackson/Getty Images for Warner Bros.

I think William and Catherine’s path is resonating enormously with the public, because so many people have difficult people in their own lives, and this is increasingly the received wisdom on how to deal with them, whether they are family members or friends you have fallen out with.

William is totally right not to get involved, not least because making his own film would a) suck up all his bandwidth for the year ahead b) create a massive amount of publicity for Harry’s film, and c) contradict what William said on the 20th anniversary, when the brothers appeared together in ITV’s Diana, Our Mother: “We won’t be doing this again. We won’t speak as openly or publicly about her again.”

Harry is going to have to explain himself on that front if he’s going to avoid looking like a man in need of money trying to cash in.

There is now such a high level of trust and confidence in William that people are inclined to see the best in him. With Harry, the absolute opposite is true. Confidence is so low that even when he does something public-spirited, like the Invictus Games, people are so mistrustful of him that they automatically assume Harry is out for himself, that Harry is looking to promote Harry.

One example is the recent revelation that Amazon is to sponsor the Invictus Games, which is already being interpreted by some as Harry and Meghan using the event to build credibility with a commercial partner.

Britain’s Prince Harry appears excited during wheelchair rugby at the National Exhibition Centre, the primary venue for the 2027 Invictus Games, in 2026.
Even when Harry does something from the heart, like the Invictus Games, the British public is disinclined to believe his motives are selfless. Aaron Chown/REUTERS

This is exactly what Queen Elizabeth II warned him about at the Sandringham Summit: the danger of mingling private and public duties, as a royal, doesn’t work. The profit motive crashes into everything Harry and Meghan try to do.

If you try to present yourself as a public servant, working for the good of the people, the good of the nation and the good of your charitable causes, doing public service in the very specific way the royals do it, and at the same time are flogging your outfits on an AI fashion platform, you open yourself up to accusations of exploiting your status to cash in.

Britain’s Queen Elizabeth, Prince Harry, and Meghan, the Duchess of Sussex, pose for a picture with some of the Queen's Young Leaders at Buckingham Palace in 2018.
The late Queen Elizabeth II is thought to have warned Harry and Meghan about the reputational risks of mixing royalty with business. POOL/REUTERS

The main story here remains that Harry is going to make this film, he is going to be seen as a hypocrite and as making money out of his mother’s legacy, and William has been asked to do the same and is not going to.

That doesn’t mean William won’t give his endorsement to a responsible film, perhaps one made by ITV rather than the BBC. There might be photographs provided, or a nod given to friends to cooperate. William would be shrewd not to get involved himself, but to give his tacit support to one really brilliant, authorized film, with a fantastic filmmaking team, made by a network he trusts.

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